I've had Thanksgiving dinner at my house for 15 years or so ever since my Parents decided it was time for the "kids" to take over the family holiday meals.
Our family has spread out over the US and grown significantly in that time but since my family has added people to their lives who also have families celebrating holidays, not everyone attends and we usually have 11 to 15 people at my house. This year, as people let me know they were coming, I realized that over 20 people would be here for Thanksgiving and it would be to cold to spread out to the deck outside. My basement, which is finished and used to be a den and then my oldest dd's bedroom, has become some kind of catchall that is entirely to full of my children's things and old furniture to be of use. There was no way I'd have time to clean out, get rid of and/or pack up all the "junk" to be able to use that room this Thanksgiving. This is way too much information. Sorry.
So even though I'd spent the week and a half before Christmas painting and cleaning, we decided Wednesday afternoon to move Thanksgiving to my youngest brother's house (all 3 of my brother's smoke, but this is the one that I think would be most likely to switch to ecigs some day), and have Christmas at my house this year instead of his. He was thrilled since his children are all still young and they could just relax Christmas day and not have to try and clean up Santa and gifts to accommodate all of us for Christmas. I doubt they'll be as many people but it gives me a few weeks to bring some order to my basement so we won't be bumping in to people in my kitchen, dining and living area. This is also way too much information. Sorry again.
We ended up with all my side of the family, except for my oldest brother and his wife, being able to attend. It was absolutely wonderful! And the meal, which my Mom and I cooked (since it was suppose to be my dinner lol) and took to my brother's house, was great too.
And as a side benefit, my middle dd's boyfriend ask her to marry him before the meal! Everyone cheered when he put the ring on her finger.
I love the food and the holiday spirit of the season, but the joy of watching my family and seeing the joy that they have in being able to be with each other for a short time each year, is magical.