Sorry all for the drama..... We sat down and talked about all this and when I told him I was stopping the forum he said that isn't what he wanted he just had questions. And really it was more of miscommunication due to his lack of computer skills

I tend to be the worrier and like to just smooth things over and really after talking we had to laugh

The day we were talking about me getting out of the shower Wildsky? Well when he was reading the pageant he is a newbie so he couldn't see the pic of the kitty cat and thought that I posted a pic of me in the shower lol. So this is a lesson how communication on the internet is not as good as in person and how things can get mistrued

lol. So I am glad it is resolved and maybe something good came out of all this we aren't bickering about prizes anymore

lololol Thanks Spikey for posting the advice for everyone to remember the most important ones at home and how communication is key