I feel ya, Mr.

You've got a lot on your plate right now, the biggest thing being an incoming infant! (Hearty congratulations, by the way!) I agree with Rick, just wrap some coils and vape, and don't worry too much about it. I stopped trying to get those Cholo clouds pretty quickly.

Or put it away for a while and come back to it when you feel you can. The DID will survive another world war, I'm pretty sure.
Let me tell you, though: Once that little bundle of joy comes screaming sweetly into your life, your time (and energy) to DID-fiddle will decrease exponentially, regardless of what you're having to do now to ready yourself for him/her. The joy of fatherhood is deep and unrivaled, but it's a full time joy. I would almost say: Grab whatever moments you can
now, and calmly work with your DID. If you can get good at setting up a wick and coil that makes you happy by the time your offspring arrives, you'll have three mls of juice in between trips to the juice drawer, as opposed to the three or so drops a 510 atty will allow you.
I'm just saying. From one dad to another: Don't lose faith, dad.