You know I am late to the party on ah, conversations and I think S&S has me on ignore. But if I'm allowed to have nervous breakdowns on here, well I can't IMAGINE why a little inter-thread discussion would be a PROBLEM.
LOL the husband has been looking at land and houses and stuff and well.... I think it's going to have to occur. We found a very cool property in St, David which is ALSO cool but like, land may be a problem as would possibly Dragoon. It's great to get 30 acres for 20K but then you need to drill a well, and make a septic tank and some sort of access to the property if you don't want to build your house RIGHT against the highway as many people do, which like, now I have figured out why people do it. Because then all THAT is like expensive and well, there are many options modular homes and steel frames and whatnot but like,, I would just die, I think.
St. David's is where I wanted to live, and there are some neat places. My poor mother like, is going to have to loan us 20K I think. She'd probably just GIVE it to me, honestly. I could tell her to take it out of the will, but if the husband can do what he thinks and the contractor doesn't suck completely, I think we could sell it at some point, which would be awesome. The husband was talking about fixing our old abode and then MOVING it and I was like, "Eww... I saw the house video I am never going back I don't care what you say about encapsulation." (Mentally.) But I was like WHY? He was like "it would save money." I was like, "Okay, you forgetting about the MORTGAGE there honey?" I need to take out a personal loan fast like within a week before they figure out I am on disability and etc. The interest wouldn't be the greatest, but it also wouldn't be AWFUL.
Buying a house with a personal loan sounds so WEIRD really, but like, obtaining a mortgage with the house we still have? It's not like doable even slightly I don't think. Mortgage lenders tend to frown on two people on disability with a house in ruins and like, LOL.
IDK I guess we'll see. I really dug some of those places and I would love to be peaceful. We'd have 3 months to move everything and stuff because we have to be here and I may need to interact with my work and stuff.
My sisi was all "I will get to this stuff like this afternoon!!! She cracks me up. She loves it when a family member desires her legal advice but even more so she is SENSIBLE. I mean she's like "legal jargon blah blah blah, but Anna, this is what it is going to do to YOUR LIFE. Do you really want to and like ,etc., etc."
She says if you want to be miserable for about 5 years, you should sue someone, anyone, even the kid's parents with the lemonade stand that used poor lemons and makes you sick. She is like the least sue happy lawyer I know,.
I mean I think she's probably right, and well, you know. But her time is worth hundreds of dollars an hour. I wish mine was. Oh well maybe with like, a private practice it may be but frankly most private practice folks make less than those who work for agencies unless they are so good, like, they can say "Here is your 200 bill and sure, you can submit to insurance if you would like. I don't help. Good luck." LOL.
Anna