I am almost caught up. It was a long day. I went out with my work friend but I had to stay late to finish my work because I had this.....
When I told my husband my boss's name he was like, incredulously, "THAT GUY? Who tanked a promising football career because he got caught on a spring break party with all kinds of madness and craziness and rape of women and them being held hostage.... THAT is your supervisor?"
I was like, "Not for too much longer, I don't think." All weary. GOD. My day was just so awful. I got a sniveling "come sign your evaluation, now that we have cleared up how I was all MISTAKEN yesterday."
I was like, "Um, I am afraid I can't. With your observations in person and writing, well, I am afraid I cannot accept your initial write up which was performed prior to you continuing to not orient me entirely which still has not been completed YET, I cannot in good conscience allow that. This will all need to be revised."
I mean he knew that I had uh, "wariness of him." I knew he somehow tanked the football career but uh, not the entire story. I just figured he wasn't good enough, not a freaking SUSPECTED NOT ENTIERLY proven felon,
So yeah, perhaps like, using a football metaphor was perhaps NOT the greatest thing. I mean.. Had I known the full story, I would be like, "I can never be alone with you again because you are a suspected ...... and you have lied to me directly several times."
Anyway, so I was like, "I am very sorry but you need to cease and desist. I have work to do today and this needs to be tabled. I spend more time explaining and educating you to get fairness than I do learning anything. Please provide my employee file. Please understand I cannot meet with you without my union rep. Please stop making assumptions. Please do not tell me I brought in cookies to "apologize to the clerks, that is something I habitually do every few months at my job to improve my work environment. Please stop making assumptions you no nothing about. Who can help facilitate my employee file being provided, please do not contact me further. I have asked you to stop emailing me. Do not tell me I have behavior patterns, do not lie, STOP. STOP WRITING ME EMAILS. CEASE AND DESIST"
And in a manipulative "Just you and me email" we have to meet for the betterment of the veterans. We can fix any mistakes and you are DELAYING the process. I forwarded it straight to my union rep who emailed me from home "We can meet tomorrow I need to know the whole story . I was like, "In the interests of sanity I quote the relevant part where my supervisor is trying to coerce me (privately) BUT IN AN EMAIL OMG HOW DUMB CAN YOU BE.... into meeting without union representation although it is my unassailable right. So.... wacky.
I am really tired. I don't understand how I am the FIRST SUPERVISEE of a dude so arrogant and violent and vile, he was able to
tank a promising FOOTBALL career by rape, drunk driving, and check kiting. He got mad when I addressed him as my supervisor, but then called me unprofessional for using a football metaphor. I cannot win. He wants me to be his pal and call him by his first name. But I can't use FOOTBALL metaphors "we have the same credentials and training." Nope, actually we DON' T my resume could eat him like he was swiss cheese, he got his degree in night school not a top 10 SW master's program.
He is also not great at chess.
But I AM tired. I met up with my work pal and that was fun. Good coffee and an entertaining time, but I was already late, I kept being interrupted, and I just want to crawl in a hole and die. I have to work the ER on Saturday. That also makes me want to die.
I mean.... I trust my patients more than I do my (soon to be ex) supervisor. That's pretty depressing, but I guess he played football and they defended our country. So, slight difference.
I am finding it loathsome though. I really wish I had picked almost any other career than this one at this point. Like, Street Mime? People spit on you but it's not so bad?
I spent more time documenting my SUPERVISOR today than any and all of my patients. But, that presents a problem. One I will no longer be tolerating. Frankly, I believe he should be fired, based on his manipulation of me ALONE.
LOL. God. Don't go it health care kiddos, go into IT. Really.
Anna
Have you any plans today?
Really ? ? ? 
