Hola, I am practicing poor sleep hygiene by being up late. But I had to stay late at work cuz I had my doc appoitnment... he was awesome! I guess I have gotten so used to my blah blah not saying much elderly retiring Tucson psychiatrist was like. He knew everything like a bunch of new stuff, I guess he found my "Psych Tale" (somehow reminds me of the "Handmaid's tale which I never finished) and spent an extra half hour with me. He was particularly horrified by my early Tucson hospitalization but I guess EVERYONE is. At one point he was like, "Where are you FROM?" so then that got complicated.
But he will not go fast with anything. He gets I am the primary breadwinner, and he has some ideas that may REDUCE the Valium which I am fine with and like did not balk at anything and says if all else fails, well, he is gonna let me stay on it. So.....
That was great til I got home and heard the conversation between my husband and the other house husband. I hate them BOTH now mine for being a craven WIMP and dummy and the otehr one for being a turd.
I MEAN, NO YOU ADVERTISED THIS HOUSE AS PROPANE. WE ARE NOT GOING TO GIVE YOU ONE THOUSAND DOLLARS to fill the
tank (which you then immediately disconnect) and then switch everything back to "free to you" gas, and like etc. NO MATERIAL CHANGES AFTER THE INSPECTION. Other than "ordinary wear and tear."
If you don't have one K for THAT you should not be attempting to sell your damn house and buy a new one. YOU ADVERTISED IT AS PROPANE not MAYBE PROPANE if you give me ONE THOUSAND DOLLARS.
It is not in the contract. MY IDIOT husband also mentioned our downpayment. That if the appraisal was NOT high enough well, like GUESS WHAT WE WOULD JUST EAT IT WITH THE CASH.
I was like... Yeah SURE honey I really want to OVERPAY for some house, no matter how much we liked it and we can't even INSURE it for what we paid? I mean, come on NOW. The man's an idiot. Plus the more I deal with these people the less I want them as neighbors. I mean the dude is in SCHOOL get a second job and go to school when you can AFFORD it don't be BEGGING me. I was like. "NO. WAY. IN.HELL."
Also, like they are freaking about time lines and I was okay with them hanging out a week or two but that is like the worst one (although they are all bad per our real estate agent.) I don't even care. If the man can't afford 1K of propane let him got to his flock for help he is a preacher. I don't know WHERE this guy gets OFF it is IN The contract that HIS real estate attorney wrote ,like HUH? Did he not even read it.
So now *I* get to be the bad guy because I am SANE. I was like, "No dude, I'm sure there are plenty of other nice houses... the guy is pretty much going to have to find a PRVIATE cash sale to find someone as lenient as even *I* am being, and I am pretty ...... off a this point, I MEAN I have wasted TIME on this.
My husband is also a GIGANTIC twit. Even the real estate person (ours) thought so. She was like NO they have to pay rent! Insurance! Your mortgage! Etc.
LOL I guess you can't have everything in one DAY but HOLY GHOST.
I told my new doctor I liked him, I was like, "One, I like you because you seem sane and understanding and get that head meds come first. Oh, and you seem competent to ME at least I always like when a doc suggests stuff I don't know, etc." LOL.
So we will see. Thank GOD it's like Veteran's day tomorrow. Seems like it was that only yesterday. I gave my group cards thanking them for being vets and ALSO bothering to even TRY to get sober. They seemed appreciative/amused. LOL.
Anna