Can't say that I've ever licked my coils, lol.
But you bring up alot of really good questions that should be looked into more deeply.
An alternative to torching the living hell out of the mesh is to wrap some rolling paper between the coil and the mesh. Once you have the coil on there, light the paper on fire. That will leave a thin layer of carbon between the coil and the mesh. Downside to that is if your coil ever shifts on the wick, you're back to having shorts/hot spots.
The only thing I do with my coils are a couple of light juice burns. Nothing else. I got a couple little hot spots which were easily removed.