The REO Lounge - Part III
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So I’ve been trying to keep up…and we all know how that goes these days. And I know this is addressing some old news, but I just need to get this off my chest. I realize that there are a lot of personalities represented here, and we’re all going to have good days and bad. But it’s been brought to my attention that lately there has been a little ankle biting going on in here. Now before anyone starts thinking I’m pointing fingers, or posting about anyone specific, please don’t go there. We all have had our moments, myself included. Those of you who know me know that I’m not overly fond of censorship in general…but this isn’t about censorship as much as it is about maintaining our rainbows and unicorns vibe that you all know I’m so fond of. (are you catching on to a theme here?)
Poo happens, I get that…but I want to remind everyone the purpose behind the need for a pleasant atmosphere in here. This thread has always been a place where folks can drop in and ask questions or just join the bull session without fear of being slammed for being stupid, new, or at worst, an outsider. (cue the creepy music) I would rather that people who are having an issue with their Reo feel comfortable coming in here to ask their questions and get help without fear of being made fun of or insulted…if they don’t feel comfortable posting their own thread. After seeing some of the threads elsewhere where folks ask questions and get snarky replies, it’s a wonder anyone feels comfortable asking questions anywhere. That’s why this is such a big deal for me. We're known for being down to earth, friendly and welcoming. I was directed to some posts recently that would make an outsider feel less than welcome.
So, if you’re getting into a crappy dialogue, please find your way out of it, chances are, it's not worth the stress. If you can’t keep it from escalating, then take it out of the lounge (preferably PM) and try to resolve your differences. If someone is harassing you or being abusive, then use the report button. And most importantly, if you aren’t sure how to read/take the words on the screen in front of you, please do NOT assume that the tone is hostile. No matter how hard we try, we simply cannot accurately convey our “tone” through the written word. Most of the time, things we say in jest are just interpreted in a different manner than intended…or perhaps they just hit “too close to home.” Please try to not take things personally…I’m willing to bet that in most instances, our comments are not meant to be hurtful, merely playful. Not all of us are going to get along all the time, and that’s okay. Disagreements are fine, so long as we all keep a level head and refrain from insulting each other. We’ve done really well over the last few years with a multitude of people coming and going on a regular basis. The last thing I want is to have people start bailing because the lounge has turned hostile.
I hope you all get what I’m after here…and don’t think that I’m trying to be a nanny. I assure you, I’m not. I’d just rather rip the bandaid off now and get it over with than to let things fester. If you feel that I’ve stepped on your toes or made you feel like I’m targeting you, please bring it to my inbox…I’m happy to discuss it if need be. You all are an integral part of the community…and it’s important that we keep it cool and together regardless of whether we’re just having a good time, a bad day or we’re working on a mysterious Reo issue. Thank you for taking the time to read this…I KNOW it’s a PITA.
Poo happens, I get that…but I want to remind everyone the purpose behind the need for a pleasant atmosphere in here. This thread has always been a place where folks can drop in and ask questions or just join the bull session without fear of being slammed for being stupid, new, or at worst, an outsider. (cue the creepy music) I would rather that people who are having an issue with their Reo feel comfortable coming in here to ask their questions and get help without fear of being made fun of or insulted…if they don’t feel comfortable posting their own thread. After seeing some of the threads elsewhere where folks ask questions and get snarky replies, it’s a wonder anyone feels comfortable asking questions anywhere. That’s why this is such a big deal for me. We're known for being down to earth, friendly and welcoming. I was directed to some posts recently that would make an outsider feel less than welcome.
So, if you’re getting into a crappy dialogue, please find your way out of it, chances are, it's not worth the stress. If you can’t keep it from escalating, then take it out of the lounge (preferably PM) and try to resolve your differences. If someone is harassing you or being abusive, then use the report button. And most importantly, if you aren’t sure how to read/take the words on the screen in front of you, please do NOT assume that the tone is hostile. No matter how hard we try, we simply cannot accurately convey our “tone” through the written word. Most of the time, things we say in jest are just interpreted in a different manner than intended…or perhaps they just hit “too close to home.” Please try to not take things personally…I’m willing to bet that in most instances, our comments are not meant to be hurtful, merely playful. Not all of us are going to get along all the time, and that’s okay. Disagreements are fine, so long as we all keep a level head and refrain from insulting each other. We’ve done really well over the last few years with a multitude of people coming and going on a regular basis. The last thing I want is to have people start bailing because the lounge has turned hostile.
I hope you all get what I’m after here…and don’t think that I’m trying to be a nanny. I assure you, I’m not. I’d just rather rip the bandaid off now and get it over with than to let things fester. If you feel that I’ve stepped on your toes or made you feel like I’m targeting you, please bring it to my inbox…I’m happy to discuss it if need be. You all are an integral part of the community…and it’s important that we keep it cool and together regardless of whether we’re just having a good time, a bad day or we’re working on a mysterious Reo issue. Thank you for taking the time to read this…I KNOW it’s a PITA.
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*chirping crickets*
Well, I feel better now.
Sure can clear a room, huh? 
Oh shoot...It's WAY past my bed time.
Dangit!!!
I hope this finds you all well rested....you know, eventually...depending on your time zone. Ya. I need to go to bed. G'nite!
Well, I feel better now.
Sure can clear a room, huh? Oh shoot...It's WAY past my bed time.
Dangit!!! I hope this finds you all well rested....you know, eventually...depending on your time zone. Ya. I need to go to bed.
G'nite!
I am still here, you can't scare me much more than Walking Dead has all night!
I hope your day goes well tomorrow since you had a crappy night tonight having to make that post.
I hope your day goes well tomorrow since you had a crappy night tonight having to make that post.
G'Night all! me & my teddy bear are going night-night.
Walking Dead didn't scare me....
... but Lisa did
Walking Dead didn't scare me....
... but Lisa did
I just got an idea...I'll title those posts "Thread BOMB!" It's not a crappy night, Val...
It's life. poo happens. Okay...now the dogs are getting cranky with me....I'm really going this time.
No, the links work for me. I been changing a lot of things. Took the YT Creator class, and been messing things up to try and raise my status up a bit.
I am watching Heros on netflix. I love Mr Muggles
I am not familiar with Heros or Mr. Muggles, but I like the name very much! Enjoy!
G'Night all! me & my teddy bear are going night-night.
Walking Dead didn't scare me....
... but Lisa did
Well, to tell you the truth, after seeing zombie girl growling with the teddy bear in her hands in episode one of WD, I would choose another stuffy to cuddle
I hit up the video on the link you posted, but to be honest didn't want to enter in order to let others who would benefit from the kit win it. I just wanted to let you know why I didn't enter. It would be great for a gift but everyone I know who I could gift it to has already been gifted!
In my time zone I get to read and enjoy all the posts at my leisure - and it gets to quite a few pages. But always worth reading through - I promise I read each and every post, but can't promise I shall remember all the detail.
Lisa, the "ankle biting" from a not-involved point of view does liven it up, but surely not from a involved person's point of view, so I have to appreciate your "band aid" therapy, very tactfully done methinks.
So, lizardnipples to all of you till next time!
Lisa, the "ankle biting" from a not-involved point of view does liven it up, but surely not from a involved person's point of view, so I have to appreciate your "band aid" therapy, very tactfully done methinks.
So, lizardnipples to all of you till next time!
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Hi Matthew - just following your example! What's the time over there in Ohio - early morning?
Very nice of you. Oh did you see that I won that CCV contest? The same one you gifted me last year. I almost felt bad but I needed some batteries for the Reo so it came at a good time. Luck has been on my side as of late.
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