I will tell you who, my stupid husband that is who. I asked him about the 3 am phone thing. He said, "I didn't make it happen." He then claimed like, "I did not cause it, I can't change it." I asked him if he could not leave his phone in the bedroom then. Then he was all like, "No." I said in that case, since he could not guarantee a reoccurrence (he said it was "updates") I would probably sleep on the couch then. None of this was mean, either, I was just being like, factual.
He's been acting like I've been a dangerous, evil criminal ever since. He also stated it was my "choice" to wake up or not. I did almost punch him then, because HE KNOWS about my BP and you can't even ARGUE such a statement, it's so witless.
I wish I had not found out there was an extra day, because otherwise I'd be almost leaving, I bet. LOL. Instead, I've been doing house moving chores, in between trying to talk
sense into him. TRYING.
I just turned on the heat, and like, I was like, "I'm cold, are you?"
He was all like, "I don't KNOW, cold is like PAIN to some people so how would I know the difference?"
I was like, "Jeezus, get off the CROSS, wouldja?"
He didn't take that well either. I'm taking a sanity break for now. But soon-- to yoga.
It's like he saves up all his PTSD for my visits, last week he was convinced I was gonna "leave" him despite ALL evidence to the contrary. Either that, or like, he's like this all the time but I've gotten used to not having to screen it out, LOL I hope it's the former.
Why would he care if I spent a night on the couch for my own peace of mind does not compute.
Sorry. But, this is why arguing sucks.
Anna