Okay, finally had THE talk with my lady last night and here's the scoop.
1. We were BBQ'ing so her and I just popped open a cold one and she was relaxed and finally "curious"
2. She was slightly confused as to why i needed a PV when we just spent money on our cig-a-like kit
3. She thought that DIY juice was dumb because she didn't want us to have 1000ml of cherry, "What if we want something different?"
So lets tackle these one at a time, shall we?
1.Mood is everything. It would seem that coming into the computer room to find me looking at specs on the provari was a bit of an instant red flag. I had to get her away from the computer that was showing all this pricing stuff. For me, mother nature did the trick. We were outside, sitting on the patio in our patio chairs enjoying a vape together. (This is what its all about ppl!)
2.I explained to her that, while having a cig-a-like is nice/convenient, it isn't very customizable. Less customizable=more cost buying cartomizers that you can't rebuild (I know there are options here, but I also know that if she has to put too much effort into it, she simply will be turned off). A PV let you change your topper, coils, heads, wick, wire, voltage, watts, battery, form factor...etc. And was easier to test/try out the DIY juice that your now mixing yourself. That brings me to...
3. Obviously you don't have you make your buy-in-bulk nicotine base all one flavor, but she didn't know that. I explained that once you have your components, you mix them to the ratio you like, add the flavor(s) you want, then start saving big $$$. She seemed to really start to understand when i compared it to ice cream. Once you have your 1 gallon of vanilla, you can take a little bit, add the toppings you want, and start to find a sundae you really enjoy!
I hope this helps someone explain to a loved one what a great, I'm gonna call it "hobby", vaping really is. Its very cost effective, and healthy when compared to smoking analogs. I wish everyone luck converting all those people who haven't put down the stinkies.