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I won't go near the big ugly spiders. And it makes it difficult because hubby is afraid of spiders. So when we have a "spider alert' at our house poor hubby mans up and does the dirty deed. He has had a nasty spider bite in the past that got ugly and did not heal for a while.

Kitty snuck out of the house while I was in the process of rescuing the Daddy Long Legs. Now I have to watch out for her to come back to the back door to let her in. She used to be a stray before she adopted us about 5 years ago. Now I don't think she wanders more than 30 feet from the house and never stays out for more than an hour. She used to bring all kinds of "presents." I could tell you stories, but I don't want to gross everybody out. But she is a good kitty, and I named her Kitty since she seemed to answer to that.
 

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This is Shari in 15 minutes...:D:D:laugh::facepalm:



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You got a kindle? ;)
 

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I am so far behind the times. You can get online with a Kindle? I thought you needed an IPad for that or a tablet?

It is a kindle fire. It is like a ipad an a kindle together, more like an ipad tho. many people have one that don't choose to read. I have the original kindle for reading and Bill bought me the fire for surfing in bed, or on the lanai. There are days I cant get up.
 

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The not getting up is a bad thing, I am sorry for that. The Kindle sounds neat. My new laptop is not operating like it is new. It is not as good as my old clunky one. Seems to freeze up more and be more tempermental. They don't make stuff like they used to. This better no be a throw-away because I have had it less than a year. I have been getting a good 7 or 8 years out of my computers.


It is a kindle fire. It is like a ipad an a kindle together, more like an ipad tho. many people have one that don't choose to read. I have the original kindle for reading and Bill bought me the fire for surfing in bed, or on the lanai. There are days I cant get up.
 

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Why do you need to be really, really sick first? Can't you just ask to go to one? Since they obviously are not curing you. They want you to wait until you get pneumonia???

Pneumonia's no guarentee for treatment. It depends on which type and the type that's the result of allergies is not "deadly". It will kill lung tissue, which happened before I was 15 due to lack of treatment. It pretty much requires going to the ER once a week and carrying adrenline before docs take food allergies related to asthma seriously. About 15 years ago I was told it wasn't possible and the doc was "top allergy doc" for the area. No testing. My GP at the time just laughed because it was obvious I had allergies going on. This was before the insurance refused to treat my cancer. Since then, my GP left the state (said he was "spooked") and I haven't had the same doctor more than once. This is a new one tomorrow. No medical records are requested or taken. I have to be re-diagnosed for anything that requires on going treatment constantly. Or go out of network and self pay.

If I request anything, I'm labeled a hypocrondriac - even though I'm a "low user of services" (makes sense, eh?) If I appeal and esp if they loose, then I get nothing, not even an asprin or asthma meds and all medical records are "lost" (prevents civil suits I guess), which is basically what happened and where I'm at now. I have no choice of insurance and no way to take the insurance to court. I can take the doctor to court, which I don't want to do and the insurance can make the doctor financially liable for fees if I go out of network, which I also don't want to happen - and that is why they are reluctant to give me the full range of treatment options. It's a rigged system, sorta like banking. I've spent probably close to ten years fighting this insurance over one thing or another like a pitbull. There are no attorneys that will help, been there too. I'm tired of the fight.

I've been watching the changes with the new health insurance and it will benefit a lot of people, but it's not addressing this stuff. This is left in the hands of the state regulators, which in this state means zip. No protections. They are even whining about "tort reforms" which is why people like me can't take insurance to court.

I need to give my body a rest and I haven't been sticking to my fruit and veggie plan 100%. I'm a non-asorber anyway. It takes like mega doses of anything to show up in my blood stream. It's a medical mystery. I do have a good vitamin but it's 9 stinky horse pills daily. It's got Omega 3, full load of amino acids, max's on about everything including adding another pill to take. It makes my nails grow very well.

Well, that's my saga. I'm frustrated and angry about a lot of this ...... One thing for sure, medicine is not about wellness anymore - not with insurance in the middle. It sucks when I can't afford to go out of network. I'm still paying for my last venture. Every penny I have goes to doctors, and much of it is for basic 101 care. Nothing extreme but I'd die without it.

Get this, the insurance decieded not to cover a years worth of medical bills last Feburary. Sent them all back - after it was too late for doctors to resubmit them (clean claim status) and too late for me to appeal. Wonderful. Legal? Probably not. Attorney wouldn't touch it. The one I deal with was the only one that's taken these kind of cases on. Still no go. It takes class actions now and those take 7 to 9 years or more. Sure, we need more "tort reform". There trying to eliminate class actions now too.

Well add 2 more cigs.
 

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Well, I heard what sounded like a cat fight outside the back door a few minutes ago. Opened the door and Kitty came flying in with some of her fur around the scruff of her neck all out of place. Yup, I think we had a visitor to the yard tonight. Kitty was defending the homeland. She is really spooked though. She went over to the dining room table. I checked her out. No blood, no scratched eyes, but she does not want to be touched right now. I gave her a couple of treats which she promptly ate and I am hoping all is fine and she is just spooked. Doesn't smell like skunk, thank goodness, so it probably was another cat.
 

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Pneumonia's no guarentee for treatment. It depends on which type and the type that's the result of allergies is not "deadly". It will kill lung tissue, which happened before I was 15 due to lack of treatment. It pretty much requires going to the ER once a week and carrying adrenline before docs take food allergies related to asthma seriously. About 15 years ago I was told it wasn't possible and the doc was "top allergy doc" for the area. No testing. My GP at the time just laughed because it was obvious I had allergies going on. This was before the insurance refused to treat my cancer. Since then, my GP left the state (said he was "spooked") and I haven't had the same doctor more than once. This is a new one tomorrow. No medical records are requested or taken. I have to be re-diagnosed for anything that requires on going treatment constantly. Or go out of network and self pay.

If I request anything, I'm labeled a hypocrondriac - even though I'm a "low user of services" (makes sense, eh?) If I appeal and esp if they loose, then I get nothing, not even an asprin or asthma meds and all medical records are "lost" (prevents civil suits I guess), which is basically what happened and where I'm at now. I have no choice of insurance and no way to take the insurance to court. I can take the doctor to court, which I don't want to do and the insurance can make the doctor financially liable for fees if I go out of network, which I also don't want to happen - and that is why they are reluctant to give me the full range of treatment options. It's a rigged system, sorta like banking. I've spent probably close to ten years fighting this insurance over one thing or another like a pitbull. There are no attorneys that will help, been there too. I'm tired of the fight.

I've been watching the changes with the new health insurance and it will benefit a lot of people, but it's not addressing this stuff. This is left in the hands of the state regulators, which in this state means zip. No protections. They are even whining about "tort reforms" which is why people like me can't take insurance to court.

I need to give my body a rest and I haven't been sticking to my fruit and veggie plan 100%. I'm a non-asorber anyway. It takes like mega doses of anything to show up in my blood stream. It's a medical mystery. I do have a good vitamin but it's 9 stinky horse pills daily. It's got Omega 3, full load of amino acids, max's on about everything including adding another pill to take. It makes my nails grow very well.

Well, that's my saga. I'm frustrated and angry about a lot of this ...... One thing for sure, medicine is not about wellness anymore - not with insurance in the middle. It sucks when I can't afford to go out of network. I'm still paying for my last venture. Every penny I have goes to doctors, and much of it is for basic 101 care. Nothing extreme but I'd die without it.

Get this, the insurance decieded not to cover a years worth of medical bills last Feburary. Sent them all back - after it was too late for doctors to resubmit them (clean claim status) and too late for me to appeal. Wonderful. Legal? Probably not. Attorney wouldn't touch it. The one I deal with was the only one that's taken these kind of cases on. Still no go. It takes class actions now and those take 7 to 9 years or more. Sure, we need more "tort reform". There trying to eliminate class actions now too.

Well add 2 more cigs.

Wow...that sounds awful!!

RE: your malabsorption. Are you Gluten free?
 

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Pneumonia's no guarentee for treatment. It depends on which type and the type that's the result of allergies is not "deadly". It will kill lung tissue, which happened before I was 15 due to lack of treatment. It pretty much requires going to the ER once a week and carrying adrenline before docs take food allergies related to asthma seriously. About 15 years ago I was told it wasn't possible and the doc was "top allergy doc" for the area. No testing. My GP at the time just laughed because it was obvious I had allergies going on. This was before the insurance refused to treat my cancer. Since then, my GP left the state (said he was "spooked") and I haven't had the same doctor more than once. This is a new one tomorrow. No medical records are requested or taken. I have to be re-diagnosed for anything that requires on going treatment constantly. Or go out of network and self pay.

If I request anything, I'm labeled a hypocrondriac - even though I'm a "low user of services" (makes sense, eh?) If I appeal and esp if they loose, then I get nothing, not even an asprin or asthma meds and all medical records are "lost" (prevents civil suits I guess), which is basically what happened and where I'm at now. I have no choice of insurance and no way to take the insurance to court. I can take the doctor to court, which I don't want to do and the insurance can make the doctor financially liable for fees if I go out of network, which I also don't want to happen - and that is why they are reluctant to give me the full range of treatment options. It's a rigged system, sorta like banking. I've spent probably close to ten years fighting this insurance over one thing or another like a pitbull. There are no attorneys that will help, been there too. I'm tired of the fight.

I've been watching the changes with the new health insurance and it will benefit a lot of people, but it's not addressing this stuff. This is left in the hands of the state regulators, which in this state means zip. No protections. They are even whining about "tort reforms" which is why people like me can't take insurance to court.

I need to give my body a rest and I haven't been sticking to my fruit and veggie plan 100%. I'm a non-asorber anyway. It takes like mega doses of anything to show up in my blood stream. It's a medical mystery. I do have a good vitamin but it's 9 stinky horse pills daily. It's got Omega 3, full load of amino acids, max's on about everything including adding another pill to take. It makes my nails grow very well.

Well, that's my saga. I'm frustrated and angry about a lot of this ...... One thing for sure, medicine is not about wellness anymore - not with insurance in the middle. It sucks when I can't afford to go out of network. I'm still paying for my last venture. Every penny I have goes to doctors, and much of it is for basic 101 care. Nothing extreme but I'd die without it.

Get this, the insurance decieded not to cover a years worth of medical bills last Feburary. Sent them all back - after it was too late for doctors to resubmit them (clean claim status) and too late for me to appeal. Wonderful. Legal? Probably not. Attorney wouldn't touch it. The one I deal with was the only one that's taken these kind of cases on. Still no go. It takes class actions now and those take 7 to 9 years or more. Sure, we need more "tort reform". There trying to eliminate class actions now too.

Well add 2 more cigs.

Sorry about that. I did not mean to get you all riled up again and make you smoke. It sounds like you fell in a black hole, medical and insurance wise. I know a little how that works.

Just about all lawyers will not touch you or your situation with a ten foot pole. And if you find one that will, you will probably have to pony up at least $5-$10 thousand dollars up front and then pay $3-$5k per deposition, if they have drs that will testify. I know, I used to work for several attorneys for over 10 years. And forget the insurance companies. All they are looking for is to avoid paying out if they can. And one doctor will not testify against another. And so it goes down the line.

Obamacare is not going to help. Since I have no income, I will not be eligible for any "subsidy" that will help pay a premium. The truly poor and unable to work but not qualify for Social Security Disability, are left without any care or options. A second black hole.

I truly feel for you and understand more than you know. They say you can fight city hall but is it worth it? It will take every dime and every last ounce of strength you have. I wish you well. I don't have an answer for you. I wish I did. Hel_, I wish I had an answer for me. I have come up with a couple of ideas, but I can't post them.

I do have one suggestion. Request a copy of your medical record after each and every visit. Then you will have them. But the insurance companies, lawyers and govt are getting smart - they will not accept medical records you hand them, they want them from the facility. But at least you will have you copies of all, including xrays and MRIs so you will know dates, etc., and when requested it will be hard for everyone to lose your records since they keep sending you to a new dr every time. That in itself is evidence of a sort and may spur an attorney to do something down the road.
 
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I'm so sorry I wasn't here for the party!! Shari, you know I super super really love you and I'm SO glad for you!! Hoist another White Russian while you're at it!!

The internet has been wonky for months now, they are turning the 2 lane road I live off of into a 4 lane road with median {5 lane road?} and they keep digging up or running over very important phone company stuff, that causes our internet to go bye-bye for multiple trips daily. Grrr. Of course I still have to pay for the entire month. . .Anyway, it was me and the girls having withdrawals from the internet tonight!

Got next to nothing done today, so yesterday's mission accomplished one day late! The laundry is all over my bed, which is why I'm not lying in it right now. That's my stupid rule, and I should do away with it immediately. Can't sleep with clean laundry, so that's how I force myself to put laundry away before bed. Otherwise it would be in a basket wrinkled into next year, because that is my least favorite part of the job. Actually I have always been resistant to doing laundry, until one day my mother asked me why I hated it so much, since I didn't have to carry it down to the river and beat it on a rock. A light bulb went off in my head, and I quit hating it so much. Still not loving the putting away portion of the evening.

Wow, I can really talk a lot about inane stuff that's totally off topic. Oh, well, you guys will love me anyway, right?

Well, goodnight dear friends, I'll visit from chaos land {aka work} tomorrow. Hope you all have a fantastic night!
 

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Wow...that sounds awful!!
RE: your malabsorption. Are you Gluten free?

No. I don't understand gluten free at all. One of the reasons I haven't considered it is because I haven't wanted to add anything to what I already know needs treatment. Does that make sense? Until I can get treated for what I already know is going on, why do I want to complicate it more? I already know I have a ton of systemic food allergies that I'm fighting to get treatment for - like allergy shots which I had 30 years ago and worked. But they wear off.

I've met the person who wrote Forks Over Knives and considered making an appt with her (she offered a free appt) and just haven't made it a priority. I wanted to stop smoking first since smoking usually derails appts with nutrionists. I wanted to do what I could so I didn't need to start with what I already knew I should be doing. Maybe that's a catch 22. My brain does that circular logic thing and I miss what's right in front of my face.
 

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Kitty has calmed down and is back in the sunroom with me. Must have been another kitty out there. She is laying on the coffee table near me, she would be on the keyboard if I would let her. She is letting me pet her. But she has an eagle eye out the sliding glass doors just to make sure. I love being loved by my Kitty.
 

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I'm so sorry I wasn't here for the party!! Shari, you know I super super really love you and I'm SO glad for you!! Hoist another White Russian while you're at it!!

The internet has been wonky for months now, they are turning the 2 lane road I live off of into a 4 lane road with median {5 lane road?} and they keep digging up or running over very important phone company stuff, that causes our internet to go bye-bye for multiple trips daily. Grrr. Of course I still have to pay for the entire month. . .Anyway, it was me and the girls having withdrawals from the internet tonight!

Got next to nothing done today, so yesterday's mission accomplished one day late! The laundry is all over my bed, which is why I'm not lying in it right now. That's my stupid rule, and I should do away with it immediately. Can't sleep with clean laundry, so that's how I force myself to put laundry away before bed. Otherwise it would be in a basket wrinkled into next year, because that is my least favorite part of the job. Actually I have always been resistant to doing laundry, until one day my mother asked me why I hated it so much, since I didn't have to carry it down to the river and beat it on a rock. A light bulb went off in my head, and I quit hating it so much. Still not loving the putting away portion of the evening.

Wow, I can really talk a lot about inane stuff that's totally off topic. Oh, well, you guys will love me anyway, right?

Well, goodnight dear friends, I'll visit from chaos land {aka work} tomorrow. Hope you all have a fantastic night!

Oh pleeeeaaaase. What was the "topic"? I do the same stuff. Laundry goes to couch = clean bed and sleep. Dirty laundry = excuse to go shopping, what else? Dishes. Ugh. That's my achilles heel. Disposables. Problem solved. Life is too short for housework anyway.
 

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No. I don't understand gluten free at all. One of the reasons I haven't considered it is because I haven't wanted to add anything to what I already know needs treatment. Does that make sense? Until I can get treated for what I already know is going on, why do I want to complicate it more? I already know I have a ton of systemic food allergies that I'm fighting to get treatment for - like allergy shots which I had 30 years ago and worked. But they wear off.

I've met the person who wrote Forks Over Knives and considered making an appt with her (she offered a free appt) and just haven't made it a priority. I wanted to stop smoking first since smoking usually derails appts with nutrionists. I wanted to do what I could so I didn't need to start with what I already knew I should be doing. Maybe that's a catch 22. My brain does that circular logic thing and I miss what's right in front of my face.


My only thought on that was that it seems that in a lot of cases, malabsorption issues often have to do with wheat/gluten problems, and that a lot of physical problems are attributed to other things because gluten sensitivity is so unrecognized. My mom had gotten to the point where the ONLY thing she was able to eat without causing some kind of problem was beans. Literally, she could...not...eat...anything...else.

She also has Lyme disease, and had been pumped full of antibiotics long-term as part of a treatment for Lyme. So she was herxing and hypo, and the naturopath she's seeing now, she went to because the Dr is a Lyme specialist. She suggested that perhaps mom's trouble was not actually the Lyme, but the auto-immune disorders. Mom went on a gluten free diet, adjusted her thyroid meds, and lo and behold is doing great. All auto-immune disorders (including allergies) are connected, and the natorupath suggested the diet not so much because my mom has gluten issues, but as a way to give her immune system a break and a "reset" of sorts.

You might check into the anti-inflammatory diet. It's not a lifelong diet, just one that helps reset and repair your body's own immune response.

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