I think that sometimes unbelievers look at us and they think that we believe that we are better people then they are. That is simply NOT TRUE. I don't think that there is one mature christian alive, notice I said mature christian, that really believes that they are better then an unbeliever. I think this is the mistake that alot of people make in believing that we think that.
We are not "better" then an unbeliever, we sin just the same as everyone else. There are some unbelievers that probably sin less then I do! That's the truth! I am no angel, and don't claim to be. I try to be the best person that I can be, but I fail miserably every single day. That's just the real deal, no candy coating. Jesus is working in my life, changing me into the person that I should be, but it doesnt' come easy. I'm alot better then before, but still fall very short in many aspects.
So, no, I"m no "better" then an unbeliever. I don't do more good things then some, and I probably sin more then some. But here is the difference: I recognized that I suck. I know that I suck, and I don't think that I'm anything special. I recognize that next to Jesus, I'm a turd, and He's the Lord, perfect, glorified, and the very definition of love and goodness.
Knowing my pathetic sinful state, compared to His Holy Perfection, I asked for forgiveness for my wrong doings. I am humble before Him, I give all glory and honor to Him, I acknowledge His Perfection, His Power, His Holyness, and I submit to His will and beg forgiveness so that I might be saved
through His sacrifice and share a place in His Holy Kingdom. He is my Lord and my God.
Do you understand what I"m saying here? This is the difference. It's not that I deserve to go to heaven, I DON"T! It is only
through His Holy Sacrifice that I am saved, because I believe in Him, not by anything that I can do myself. If it were not for Jesus, and His mercy in coming here to die for me, I would be heading straight for hell. That's the truth.