Well Nate I don't know there's a few of us over there that I don't know who they are there yet. I know Snoopy, and Fonedude, Curvy, Trbo, Deadcat2, Kristin ,John... I still don't know who flaming is for one.
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Well Nate I don't know there's a few of us over there that I don't know who they are there yet. I know Snoopy, and Fonedude, Curvy, Trbo, Deadcat2, Kristin ,John... I still don't know who flaming is for one.
and before anyone takes my above comment wrong I am not talking about anyone here. Just to clarify.
I'm not saying be mean to her or blow her off... just keep one eye open.
Completely understand and respect your point!!! 
I guess each person handles thier situations differently. I can't say for sure of course why she does this, but maybe she's hoping for complete acceptance within her group and she feels that if she's throwing punches at us, it will earn her acceptance with them. (Kind of like how sororities make you do weird crap just to be one of "them".) Now, you might ask why she wants to be accepted by the same people who have abused her....well that all has to do with that abused mentality. I'm no shrink, but I speak from my own personal experience. It's a sickness really...siding with the abuser. I guess I was just lucky to finally wake up one day and go "What the he!! was I thinking?"
I guess each person handles thier situations differently. I can't say for sure of course why she does this, but maybe she's hoping for complete acceptance within her group and she feels that if she's throwing punches at us, it will earn her acceptance with them. (Kind of like how sororities make you do weird crap just to be one of "them".) Now, you might ask why she wants to be accepted by the same people who have abused her....well that all has to do with that abused mentality. I'm no shrink, but I speak from my own personal experience. It's a sickness really...siding with the abuser. I guess I was just lucky to finally wake up one day and go "What the he!! was I thinking?"
I don't mean to be argumentative... it's just in my nature ;-) Thing is, she's doing the same thing to the "e-cig" people as the rest of them - and recently. So if she's so affronted over the way they treat or have treated her, why is she engaging in the same behavior? My only point was... I don't really need to be preached to about "being nice" by someone who cannot practice what sjhe preaches. There's a lot of that going on over there :rollyeyes:
I thought I knew who flaming was, but I just searched and I don't think it was who I thought it was.
I thought I knew who flaming was, but I just searched and I don't think it was who I thought it was.
Its possible flaming isn't actually from here but I would bet he is.
My humble opinion on this. Consider the source. Hot - cold - hot - cold - friendly etc etc etc
I posted many many pages ago that my feelings have gone from anger to happiness to sadness over the last week. That may apply to her also. And many other people. That's how I'm trying to look at all this. And for some there may be no hope. So be it. Not my problem.
I was checking out Curvy's sig banner and decided to go check out the website. There was an article link about e-cigs, so I checked it out. Here's the link: Electronic Vapor Kits Make Big Splash in America - 360 Press Releases
CurvyChick. I agree. I think the world of all of you and believe I have made some friends here. I consider you all part of my extended family. I could not have accidentally found a better bunch of folks than you crazy guys and I don't regret a minute of that.
I don't think any of this will divide us. We are not like that core group that loves to spit venom at people. I am grateful for you all and look forward to know all of you better as time passes.
I don't think any of this will divide us. We are not like that core group that loves to spit venom at people. I am grateful for you all and look forward to know all of you better as time passes.
Have you learned to do a dry burn yet? Those can work wonders if your careful and don't blow the atty.
My sig banner? Hmmmm. Anyhoo, just don't fall for the free trial thing at the bottom. Free trials are BAD!!
I have decided to stop responding in kind to the abusive posts over there and instead just keep it real.
That way, hopefully, things will eventually flatline.
But I don't think I will be able to withdraw my humor at the expense of the crazies.
That way, hopefully, things will eventually flatline.
But I don't think I will be able to withdraw my humor at the expense of the crazies.
I wouldnt do that. I am long past the free e-cig thing. I have a few too many mods tha tI have made over the past few weeks
Yep learned that very ealry on I just don't care for dripping too much....but my favorite flavor is here and I don't have a carto for it....the horror!
Ever tried cleaning in polident? I use it for my Ego-T atties. Works like a charm ;-)
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