i think i've decided on the place to send my hair --
Pantene Beautiful Lengths: Donate Hair for Cancer Patient Wigs
they will take hair with a small amount of gray in it. there's a hairdresser in town, within walking distance, in fact, that i'll call tomorrow. i'm sure they'll cooperate, even if they don't have a program for hair donations in place. i can send my hair to pantene myself. the hairdresser can bind it up in a ponytail for me so it's ready to go. i'll get the haircut before going into the hospital.
saturday, my stepmother, who is actually more like my big sister, is coming to stay with us to help out. she's bringing her cat. tom will have a fit. he's already bent out of shape about my arm. when i'm lying down, he heads straight for it, and of course i shoo him away from it. he's also very underfoot. he knows something is wrong with me, and it's making him insecure.
tomorrow, i go to the hospital for some tests. a friend will drive me there and back. this morning, bill took me to the doctor, and this friend drove me home. we stopped for lunch on the way home, which was nice. i like eating out, and it meant no one-handed food prep at home.