I'm just curious about the whole
To elaborate:
I PM'd a seller as well as posted in the seller's thread of my interest in purchasing an item they listed.
I came back approx 11 hrs later (seller had not responded to PM or posted in thread) and advised I had the funds for the item ready to pay (PM'd again, as well).
Approximately 10 minutes later, the seller PM'd me and gave me their PP information.
I was in the process of wrapping up my own thread and approx 15 minutes later, I sent the funds as instructed.
I immediately came back to the forum to reply to the seller's PM and found the seller had retracted their "it's yours" statement claiming there were others in front of me, they had made a mistake.
The seller did refund the money I sent, but is this proper etiquette? Seems to me the apology should have gone to the ones who were skipped in error, rather than the buyer who already paid. I'd just like some clarification going forward, if it's not too much trouble.
4 It is recommended, although not required, to make a post in a thread when negotiating a transaction via PM. Should the transaction fail to be successful, this makes record of your activity should ECF need to look into a matter of defraud. A simple message stating you have sent a PM will suffice.
5 It is never acceptable to offer an item for sale then sell to a higher bidder. If you are found to skip a buyer in favor of a higher offer, this will be considered an auction and is a violation of rule #4 above, under "New Threads". All offers should be considered on a first come, first served, basis.
6 First come, first served basis doesn't mean seller must sell to the first member to contact them. It is the seller's prerogative to sell to whom they feel most secure selling to.
To elaborate:
I PM'd a seller as well as posted in the seller's thread of my interest in purchasing an item they listed.
I came back approx 11 hrs later (seller had not responded to PM or posted in thread) and advised I had the funds for the item ready to pay (PM'd again, as well).
Approximately 10 minutes later, the seller PM'd me and gave me their PP information.
I was in the process of wrapping up my own thread and approx 15 minutes later, I sent the funds as instructed.
I immediately came back to the forum to reply to the seller's PM and found the seller had retracted their "it's yours" statement claiming there were others in front of me, they had made a mistake.
The seller did refund the money I sent, but is this proper etiquette? Seems to me the apology should have gone to the ones who were skipped in error, rather than the buyer who already paid. I'd just like some clarification going forward, if it's not too much trouble.
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