I'm one of those that accidentally quit. When I bought my first kit I was skeptical, but had a glimmer of hope of at least reducing my cigarette use. I bought my first starter kit on Aug 16, at which point I had a pack of cigarettes that had about 17 left. Today, that pack is still sitting where I left it, and there are 10 cigarettes in it. Most of the 7 that have been used were just a couple of puffs to see what it tasted like and if it still held appeal. I haven't had even a puff in oh... about 2 weeks.
I smoked ~1.5 PAD of Marlboro Ultra Lights. Although that's pretty light weight compared to some, I tried many times to stop. I tried the patches, the gum, and Wellbutrin. With the patches and the gum I'd do okay, cutting back, but eventually would end up smoking while using the NRT. The Wellbutrin was terrible and gave me vivid nightmares. It was a mess.
I used Weight Watchers to lose weight, and in one of our meetings they showed a chart that explained a version of the mental preparation and steps to changing behavior. This was kind of eye opening to me, as I'd never really thought about it before. Here is an example of the type of chart I'm talking about:
You can read more about the stages here:
Adult Meducation
I realized that with smoking, I had been in the 'preparation' and 'action' stages many times, but never really made it to 'maintenance'. When I bought the first e-cig, I wasn't even in the action phase. I was truly maybe between the 'precontemplation' phase or the 'contemplation' phase. In fact, the explanation of the precontemplation phase "The person is not even considering changing. They may be "in denial" about their health problem, or not consider it serious. They may have tried unsuccessfully to change so many times that they have given up." Pretty much sums up how I was feeling about quitting smoking. I wanted to, but I was pretty sure it was impossible.
When I got the e-cig, it quickly motivated me and pushed me into the 'action' phase. I realized it WAS possible. This could take the place of smoking for me, and I eventually might even be able to quit vaping if I could taper off my nicotine concentration. I'm not there yet, but I truly believe it's possible now. Which I didn't before.
That is what is so amazing to me, and I know it's different for everyone, but I was not really in the mindset of, 'this has to stop. I have to make a change'. I bought the e-cig on a whim and was utterly astounded at how well it worked. True, I am not really quit, as I still use the nicotine, but it's an improvement over the patches and gum where I was just using both instead of quitting the cigarettes as you are supposed to do.
Anyway, there's my extremely long post! If you made it through, thanks for reading!