11/29 #1
Morning everyone

Need to be getting a good start on my roadtrip today ... Pretty much..my days of driving in the dark are over.
This nice long relaxing Holiday weekend has been nice.
I did a few things and got a few things done, but def not my usual acorn gathering mode....that starts again this week
@Fuzzy Thunderbear ...wow...just WOW> Talk about that Universal order and pick up window thing you were talkin about.

...just WOW! And I couldn't be happier because it means there will be LESS of the MORE things for you to do! As you age, it's time for you (ALL of us) to get a plan,mister ....believe me, I know I don't need to say it. Just hopin you got one.
I heard Belize is nice

...and Chile has a very international flavor to it. And no one there would blink an eye at a few chicks and a cow

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@Amlowe and others ...I have had alot goin on ...but this morn seems like as good a day as any ...
There aren't many radio stations out here that I want to listen to...so I generally fall on an NPR talk type if I can. One day they were talking about some folks who went around asking people "If they had a time machine..would they use it ..and what for. " It was interesting in that they found that as a group, older folks..say over 55 ..were less likely to even be interested. So they went out again to ask WHY. Well...some of them decided it would be kinda cool to go back and see a dinosaur...but for the most part hardly any really wanted to go back and CHANGE anything significant about their Lives.
Personally, I get that. Have you ever played the board game..The Game of Life?? You start out ...with just you ...and you are either a pink peg for a girl or a blue peg for a boy ..although we sometimes found it entertaining to switch over and "see what the other half lived like"

... Then you get a car ..and as you move around the spaces, you come to crossroads where you decide if you are going to college or learning a trade and working....along the way...you may hit a card that says.."Congratulations! You are now married!" at which point you add another colored peg to your passsenger side seat! Other cards..congratulate you on the birth of a son or daughter (more pegs in your car)...Other cards ask you to pay up for braces...or colllege...or heaven forbid, the IRS nabs you or the roof needs fixed.... or you default on your mortgage and have to go to the poor farm

....I bring this up because LIFE really IS something like that. There are crossroads and decisions to be made...each takes you down a path ...sometimes they come back together..sometimes they go their separate ways ....Some things you have little to no control over...some you do...some you do ALOT!
I wish I could say that in my old years I won't have any regrets....but there's a good chance I will ...But even now...when I thing about those things in my Life that were not so great ....if I were to put myself on that game board ...where did that decision take me?? And more importantly..WHO were the people that came into my Life as I went down that path. Then I think about what would have happened if I had choosen another path. And it is funny, in a not funny way ...that I can see all those faces of the people I knew, just fading away and dissappearing. Why? ..because, had I choosen differently, I very likey would have NEVER MET THEM. And that is a sobering thought. Would I trade in all my friendships that I know today...to go back and go down that other path that I so regret not taking??? Wow...talk about a risque game of Let's Make a Deal!! "You can give up ALL of what you know and have NOW, KatzWh1skers ...and gamble it all on what's behind Door #3 !! ".
Will it be beyond your wildest dreams??! Or will you end up with a Thigh Master , a donkey, and a years supply of Dog Biscuits??!
NO...I think therein lies the answer why older folks don't wanna go back and change things.... Becuz changing even ONE thing ....takes you down a different path ... and if you looked behind you, maybe you would see that the path you changed also had many dear friends and acquantainces down it.... all gone...perhaps you met the love of your life because of something not so great ..
No..older folks realize that bad things happen...but they also cherish all the things ...all the GOOD things...all the people who came into their lives....And there is no way they would risk losing those friends, experiences, and memories. I look down my own Life and there has been heartache...but it amazes me how far I've come since I continued on away from that path ....Would I gamble all my friends, all my experiences..everything I've seen and done since then ....To roll the dice ... and go back to a time we regret and do things different ?? But at what cost??
I guess that's something each of us must ask ourselves.
(here's one for our RR..)