Heather's Heavenly Vapes - THE BIG THREAD (Part 3)

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Morning for me is whenever I have to drag my cranky .... out of bed.

Tried sleeping in bed last 2 nights and I hate it. Our bed is so worn out and uncomfortable. I've always hated it but it's coming up on ten years old and worse than ever. Spring poking my hipbone all night, doesn't let my back curve like it should. Woke up to feeling like spikes in my spine this morning at about 4am and haven't slept since.

Bad part is we literally have no money to replace it. Every last penny has been accounted for lately, and some dumb decisions when we were younger mean the credit card is still maxed. Can't get another card because we can't afford the payment :facepalm:. If I'd only known then what I know now I'd have married a sugar daddy instead of for love lololololol

Credit cards will kill your finances. Get that thing paid off.
 

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Negative. 20 Watts on the Helios. You need a dual coil dripper with really good airflow to push 20+ Watts. I find the KFL is not good beyond the natural range of the ProVari, due to its natural limitations. I suppose you could modify the juice channels and the air flow inlet and make it work...but I think the KFL is perfect for what it is. I DO NOT recommend modifying that atty.

I think you're right Lion.
 

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I don't usually spill my guts here and I always try to look at the positive side of everything. You all were so supportive and soooo there for me through my cancer and getting rid of it :wub:

I'm just having a very hard time finding the right path to take on this trip. God! How stupid am I?!?! I have survived cancer and I'm afraid of what perfect strangers think of me? I guess that is what it boils down to. :unsure:

Ugh! :lol: I'll get through this :D

Chill Robin! You should be at a point in your life where it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you. Who cares!!! :)
 

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Credit cards will kill your finances. Get that thing paid off.
Working on it but it's going really slow... On the plus side we have excellent credit rating. If we can stick to the budget and I can stop the hubby from buying stupid stuff we can be debt free outside of primary mortgage by the start of 2016. I can't wait, the stress of it all is killing me
 

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Working on it but it's going really slow... On the plus side we have excellent credit rating. If we can stick to the budget and I can stop the hubby from buying stupid stuff we can be debt free outside of primary mortgage by the start of 2016. I can't wait, the stress of it all is killing me

I hear yuh Always. Sit hubby down and show him your plan and goals. Show him your progress at least once a month so he's your ally instead of your enemy. It will really help. Show him what you pay a month in interest alone. That should get his attention. If that doesn't get him on your side then beat the :censored: out of him. :laugh:
 

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Sometimes that works Bronze, but sometimes not. DH spends around $350 a month on smokeless tobacco. He won't even consider cutting back. I remind him monthly when I balance his checkbook. So I'm gonna go with the beating the :censored: out of him!

Go for it Bridge!!! Think of him as the mailman on vape day.
 

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I just can't get into this trip. The whole thing started off very weird. After the kids got engaged, rick received a card from Jason's parents saying the usual nice stuff like can't wait to meet you and how much they love Erica. The usual stuff. I'm. Not. Mentioned. At. All... Not even in the addressed to.

They post the summer BBQ event and send out the invites through FB. Rick gets invited. Even though the mother of the groom and I are friends on there, I. Don't. Get. Invited.

Rick asked Erica what was up with all the above? Later that night the FB invitation was issued.

Rick's ex is going and was the first invite from Erica's family.

Yeah, not feeling the joy in this trip.

You can come stay at the river with me this weekend, Robin!
 

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I don't get how SO many guys I know are totally clueless about money....I really don't. What will they do if their wives ever leave them?

Just...don't....get....it.

Me too Lion. Men always knew what was going on with finances and were always in control and always the one reigning in their wives. That isn't true anymore. Is it any wonder why so many people are up to their azzes in debt? Some women have picked up the slack but not all of them. I cannot believe what I see out there these days. People going bankrupt and lenders standing in line to give them more! Guess who pays for that?
 
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