How about a vaping dating service?

[dam718]

Zapped... Don't feel bad...

I always had pre-requisites when I was on the dating scene like a year after my divorce...

Blonde, blue eyes, petite, very pretty, sweet, southern... People used to say I was crazy... That I should let love find me, regardless of the package it came in...

Bah, screw that... So I waited... and waited... and waited... And eventually love did find me...

In the package of a blonde, blue eyed, petite, very pretty, sweet southern girl from Tennessee I couldn't be happier, and I didn't settle for anything...

I think that's where people make mistakes... They get this idea in their head that beinf superficial makes you a bad person... I think in some ways we're all superficial to a degree... It defines who you are, the things you like and dislike... If you settle on something you don't care for, you are starting on a downhill slope right out of the gates...

I guess I'm just a ding dong...

 

[SilentScreams]

Why give anything up? Im not saying go find a carbon copy of yourself but it helps when you share more than a few things in common.Ive found almost the exact opposite to be true.Im not looking for someone that I need to change or that needs to change me. Part of love is accepting people, flaws and all, for who they are. Thats the tricky part.

Doesnt mean you cant narrow it down a little bit early on though Ive been having fun teasing in this thread but Im lucky enough to have found someone like that and my life has been blessed ever since.

So sorry ladies.....Im off the market

Don't get me wrong. I did not mean that one should change everything about themselves. But say 2 people meet that live quite a distance from each other. Eventually if things go right one or the other will have to give up their job and home and move so that they can live together. Something of that nature is what I meant, not that exactly but it's an example. I would never change myself completely but there are things I would change. Usually those things we want to change or say we want to change just take a little encouragement, such as finding someone that makes us want to finally make those changes.

I have found in my own personal experience that no matter how much I might want to change something about myself, without the proper motivation I just wont do it. I wanted to lose weight and just could not get motivated to do so. I met someone I liked. I ended up really liking her and so I was motivated to get up and go to the gym every day. Once I found out there was no hope of winning her over I stopped going every day. I still go but its only 2 or 3 days a week instead of 7. And it's only an hour so instead of several.


EDIT: I think we kinda got off the main topic of this thread...

 

[zapped]

Zapped... Don't feel bad...

I always had pre-requisites when I was on the dating scene like a year after my divorce...

Blonde, blue eyes, petite, very pretty, sweet, southern... People used  to say I was crazy... That I should let love find me, regardless of the  package it came in... 

Bah, screw that... So I waited... and waited... and waited... And eventually love did find me... 

In the package of a blonde, blue eyed, petite, very pretty, sweet southern girl from Tennessee  I couldn't be happier, and I didn't settle for anything...

I think that's where people make mistakes... They get this idea in their  head that beinf superficial makes you a bad person... I think in some  ways we're all superficial to a degree... It defines who you are, the  things you like and dislike... If you settle on something you don't care  for, you are starting on a downhill slope right out of the gates... 

I guess I'm just a ding dong...

I totally agree.I would much rather know what I like, dislike and really wanted instead of going through life without a clue Then again at 35 you'd kind of expect that from someone any way.

I had my entire teens and twenties and half my thirties to tear a swath through womens hearts and find out exactly what I like and dislike in a partner in the process.

 

[zapped]

EDIT: I think we kinda got off the main topic of this thread...

Not at all! Chicks dig guys who can talk about their feelings ;-)

 

[Thomasis]

I always find the topic of what "Love" is to be fairly interesting, especially how we interpret it. I am of the opinion that true love means that neither myself or my wife have to give up anything, because we love each other and wholly accept everything that the other brings to the table...

Now don't get me wrong, I would give my life to save hers, and I'm at least a little confident that she would do the same for me... But aside from that unselfish act, neither of us have really had to give up anything.... And so far that has worked out much better than my previous marriage where my ex tried to get me to change everything that I was... And I hated her for it...

I would have to say that you need to be wiling to be flexible when it comes to "change". If I can change a routine or habit that would provide more happiness for her than it would cause me more pain to do without than no problem, but if someone has unreasonable expectations to change another just to cause a fuss then no, that's not on the table. I like to keep smiles on faces it makes me happy, but It's gonna be a two way street. My way or the highway just ain't gonna happen!!

 

[dam718]

I think we kinda got off the main topic of this thread...

Nah, the single folks need to know! Don't settle for anyone! Especially all you hot ladies out there! Keep putting avatars of pretty girls up and I'll live vicariously through all the chit chat... vaperbootycall dot com!!!

And maybe flirt a bit... But it's friendly dangit! I wanna keep my franks and beans all together!

 

[zapped]

 

[dam718]

Have you seen my baseball!!??

Haha... Thanks man, now I'm gonna be giggling all night...

Franks and beans! Franks and beans!!

 

[EddardinWinter]

NOT TODAY, DUDE.

Nice, sure every so often one gets away...

But sooner or later, I eat again. It is the way of the plain.



So enjoy your day, but keep your eyes open. I will be back...

 

[Thomasis]

Alright, the mods are gonna jump in pretty soon, if someone were to do a search for franks and beans, ding dong, hand held toys, or I'll show you mine, it's gonna lead them straight to ECF!! I find that pretty funny.

 

[zapped]

Alright, the mods are gonna jump in pretty soon, if someone were to do a search for franks and beans, ding dong, hand held toys, or I'll show you mine, it's gonna lead them straight to ECF!! I find that pretty funny.

I'd rather they found that than links to Knockout Vapor. Has to be the sleaziest company connected with vaping Ive ever seen and thats including Blu, Greensmoke and all the mall vendors combined.

I know its off topic but just wanted to put it out there.We need to warn people away from this company and not only because their image has the potential to harm vaping by association.

120 bucks for an Ego twist with a clearo attached? Cmon!

 

[EddardinWinter]

Not at all! Chicks dig guys who can talk about their feelings ;-)

Zapped: Chicks dig guys who can talk about their feelings
Peter: Well, not all chicks.
Lawrence: Well, the type of chicks that'd double up on a dude like me do.
Peter: Good point.

Can you name the reference movie. One of the greatest comedies of all time, in this lion's opinion....

 

[dam718]

So... To test your theory...

In 3 days remind me to do a google search for:

"dating a vaper with ding dong hand held toys and pretty franks and beans"

It should lead me straight to your post!

edit: Oh, and just for good measure... vaperbootycall

 

[Rachy_B]

As if I'm not picky enough, adding vaping to my list of demands of a man is going to send me to a convent! Smoker/not objectional to smoking used to be on that list- now it's non-smoker who's supportive of my vaping/knows how to keep their mouth shut if they want to poop all over it!

Tall, intelligent, pretty eyes, not a total jerk, honest, and a clean blood test are also on that list! To be honest, I think I'm doing some kind of Sandra Bullock, Practical Magic thing here! Asking for the impossible...although I did have a date on Tuesday...it was going so well until he said he liked the smell of tobacco smoke! Lol! First non-smoker I've EVER heard say that! Nice guy tho...fingers crossed!x

 

[zapped]

Zapped: Chicks dig guys who can talk about their feelings
Peter: Well, not all chicks.
Lawrence: Well, the type of chicks that'd double up on a dude like me do.
Peter: Good point.

Can you name the reference movie. One of the greatest comedies of all time, in this lion's opinion....

Office Space ;-)

 

[zapped]

As if I'm not picky enough, adding vaping to my list of demands of a man is going to send me to a convent! Smoker/not objectional to smoking used to be on that list- now it's non-smoker who's supportive of my vaping/knows how to keep their mouth shut if they want to poop all over it!

Tall, intelligent, pretty eyes, not a total jerk, honest, and a clean blood test are also on that list! To be honest, I think I'm doing some kind of Sandra Bullock, Practical Magic thing here! Asking for the impossible...although I did have a date on Tuesday...it was going so well until he said he liked the smell of tobacco smoke! Lol! First non-smoker I've EVER heard say that! Nice guy tho...fingers crossed!x

Rachy Im sure there are DOZENS of men near you who would consider themselves lucky to know you. Dont give up and sometimes the Practical Magic thing works....Fate doesnt like to be tempted Ask all the guys and girls who swore off relationships and then mysteriously found themselves in one a few weeks later

 

[EddardinWinter]

Nice work, Z. You the man. This thread has just earned a leonine subscription. I, like you Z, am not single, but this thread is fun!

 

[dam718]

now it's non-smoker who's supportive of my vaping/knows how to keep their mouth shut if they want to poop all over it!

Wait, what? Were you having some issues with guys pooping all over it with their mouths open?

 

[Thomasis]

Man, If someone was poopin all over it I would try to keep my mouth shut too!!!!

Just kidding, I know what you mean, the dating game can be very frustrating...

 

[zapped]

wait, what? Were you having some issues with guys pooping all over it with their mouths open?

kinky! ......