erm.
stumble upon this social group.
when I first joined ecf, this area was closed, so I didn't think about checking back in.
my gf and I, had been together for about 3? 4? years now, she knows the date, I don't.
We are out in RL, and living in OKC (belt buckle of the bible belt), coming out to people is a daily thing, so really, open/private group makes no differences to us.
But yay, social group!