update: So I went on the date...he didnt smoke in front of me ( I felt kinda bad about that...I mean a week ago I was smoking too) but I did vape in front of him. He didnt say much about it. He just told me about a guy at work who does it during his 12 hour shift, in order to get threw the shift. I only felt a little funny because he refrained and I didnt. Aside from all that I felt comfortable vaping. I think its a matter of getting use to it. I know I'm not doing anything wrong but everyone else doesnt really know that.
ps. I had a good time and there will be a second date..haha
vaping my little heart out right this minute <3
Liberating isn't it?