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so so...a bit better after finally getting some restful sleep...

they put my daughter into sort of isolation, it's more like a time out...she sits in the corner while everyone else gets to watch tv and play games...now that the center isn't so much fun for her she's into begging and pleading and bribing to get out and come home :(
since she wasn't being honest about anything with anyone basically just telling people what she thought they wanted to hear, they took away her privileges to force her to have nothing else to do but sit and think and reflect on what is the real problem....but instead she's taking it as she's in trouble....she doesn't want to really deal with the real issues just the easy issues.
 

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i know it is and honestly i'm glad they did that because if things kept going the way they were I was going to pull her out because it wasn't going to help her as it was really giving her exactly what she wanted...no school, time with others and at least 1 hour or more every day with just me and not her sister....

and I know it's going to get worse before it gets better....
 

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Shadav in the end this is the best way and she probably really needs the reflection time. She will go through many stages and usually anger plus I'm in trouble so I feel bad for myself comes first. She's young so it's got to be hard and confusing to her. Like GG said it'll take her time to cycle through everything and this also gives you time to get things together in your head with her away. This too shall pass and today is just a momentary small time frame of a long journey. With my son and his autism I just get so frustrated at times but sometimes it takes me minutes and other times days to move past things. I take things harder with Noah than I do myself and usually I'm focused on Noah and his Emotions than my own. We are all here for u and its always darkest before dawn :)

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    so so...a bit better after finally getting some restful sleep...

    they put my daughter into sort of isolation, it's more like a time out...she sits in the corner while everyone else gets to watch tv and play games...now that the center isn't so much fun for her she's into begging and pleading and bribing to get out and come home :(
    since she wasn't being honest about anything with anyone basically just telling people what she thought they wanted to hear, they took away her privileges to force her to have nothing else to do but sit and think and reflect on what is the real problem....but instead she's taking it as she's in trouble....she doesn't want to really deal with the real issues just the easy issues.
    Try to believe Shadav, in the end she'll be a better person for it all. It's hard on the kid and the parent but like Jeff said, there are a lot of stage's to go through before you get there. Someday she'll thank you :)

    Hello all :)
     

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    thanks Jeff hugs

    and thanks really to everyone for all of your help and support, ya'll are just great and really I do appreciate each and everyone of you

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    balwin

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    so so...a bit better after finally getting some restful sleep...

    {{{hugs}}}

    Jeff you asked about blue moon over Paris, it is also VZ flavoring. It is .6 ml blueberry and .2 ml French pipe in a 15 ml base.

    Looks like I'm out of here again...Poppa says it's time to go to DQ for some ice cream.

    BBL
     

    Downtownjeffbrown

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    {{{hugs}}}

    Jeff you asked about blue moon over Paris, it is also VZ flavoring. It is .6 ml blueberry and .2 ml French pipe in a 15 ml base.

    {{{hugs}}} :)

    Thank u that's what I wanted to know. Gonna start some DIY I think if I ever get laid off and I'm trying to gather all my favorites. I remember u said that one was simple but it's so good :D

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    I am hon, the new avy..can't really see it but Robins news made us all so happy for her that for the next few days I'm displaying what I call "Robins Star". Why I went quiet a few hours ago, I was sketching :laugh:

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    :) well if anyone deserves a star it's her.

    So what's the plan today MD?

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    How AWESOME are YOU!!! You have the SWEETEST heart!! I agree if anyone deserves a star it's Robin!!! :)

    OMG! That is so totally awesome!!! :wub: !!!!!!!
    YOU are so totally awesome!! :wub: !!!

    I got GREAT sleep last night :banana: finally got out of bed after 10 :laugh: I don't think I will need the Aleve tonight :thumbs:


    I think I will use That sketch as my profile pic. It is so beautiful and so perfect. I love you! :wub:
    Just so very happy things are going so great for you!!! You are just so amazing!!!

    Good afternoon to you (when you get here). It is a beautiful sunny day. It appears that the pupdogs have gotten into some poison oak. And since the pupdogs sleep next to me............I now have it all down there favorite side since they sleep in the middle. I have started putting cortisone cream on but if anyone one has a "home remedy" I can try please let me know. Most of the time when I get it I have to go to the doctor for a shot and a round of steroids. Grrrrrrr....... I love my dogs but they are getting blamed for this one because I haven't hardly been out of my recliner, much less in the woods. Oh well, like I always say.........this too shall pass.
    Bless your heart!! DH gets poison ivy really bad. Below in the link, is the only thing he's found that helps, and it works WONDERFULLY for him. It is something you need a prescription for, and I think it's a topical steroid, but DH SWEARS it's the best of the best of anything he's ever had. His is a liquid/lotion at 0.05% strength.

    http://www.medicinenet.com/betamethasone_dipropionate/article.htm

    i know it is and honestly i'm glad they did that because if things kept going the way they were I was going to pull her out because it wasn't going to help her as it was really giving her exactly what she wanted...no school, time with others and at least 1 hour or more every day with just me and not her sister....

    and I know it's going to get worse before it gets better....
    (((Shad))) Hang in there!! Continued prayers!!

    {{{hugs}}}

    Jeff you asked about blue moon over Paris, it is also VZ flavoring. It is .6 ml blueberry and .2 ml French pipe in a 15 ml base.

    Looks like I'm out of here again...Poppa says it's time to go to DQ for some ice cream.

    BBL
    Yum, THAT sounds really good!! I haven't had DQ ice cream in years!!! I need to do that this weekend!!!!

    Bobbi, I blogged that recipe for future reference if anyone want to get it later. I hope you don't mind. :)



    Well, I'm a tired pup tonight. DH opened the pool today, I helped, but honestly still didn't do a fraction of what he did. He also pressure washed the patio and back of the house. I went and got flowers for my 4 pots and got those set out. Started at 10 this a.m., finished just after 4, took a quick nap, and now I'm ready to eat, and VEG OUT on the couch tonight!!!:laugh:
     
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