As someone who is pretty new to the vaping scene (about four months) and who has just in the past month really begun to research and understand all the stuff that's out there now, I really appreciate this post. One of the main things I love about vaping is the endless possibilities that are available to modify and customize your own personal "experience." Unfortunately, having endless possibilities can be bad thing. I was an engineering major in my early college years, but switched my major to actuarial science (that's insurance based probability and statistics) because I realized I was more into the math stuff than I was science. I mention this because when I first started reading up on all the sub-ohm/advanced mod stuff,my math brain was instantly intrigued by it and I thought "wow I gotta get into this! This is the proper way to vape!". The more I thought about it the more I realized that maybe it wasn't as superior as I originally thought. Like I said I have more of a math brain so I thought back to the basic equation we've all seen on those lovely colored voltage charts: wattage equals voltage squared divided by resistance. All this equation really says to me is that for any resistance there is a wattage and voltage that is most efficient in a given device. Like you (and I think most people who vape), I am after the best flavor first and foremost. So if there is an efficient voltage/wattage range for any given resistance level, is having a really low ohm setting and cranked up wattage necessarily better? My answer would be no, like most things, it comes down to preference.
That being said, people like the guy you talked to really get on my nerves and in my opinion, are bad representatives of the vaping community. Its people like that that would advise a beginner/novice vaper that they have to get a powerful mechanical mod/sub-ohm device and everything else is crap, and that to me could be dangerous. As we all know, a lot of this stuff is trial and error and learning through experience, and I don't what a beginner to try and vape on something that is meant for a veteran because of advice taken from an idiot and god forbid, something bad happens as a result. Something like this is exactly what all those anti-vaping people would need to verify a ban on vaping.