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marviner

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And so we flied
away from everything
And so we flied
With bright eyes, lost indeed

Gemstones, as a part of life
Lights the way of yesterday.
Small moments, as they are
They will make me stronger

How could can I forget my shadow,
It's a part of my magic.
Today I want to raise my glass,
And vanish beyond time...

Golden heart and burning mind
Our names were part of a dream
Golden heart and burning mind
sacred wisdom to seek

And so we flied
away from everything
And so we flied
With bright eyes, very lost indeed

And still you walk besides me
Without torch, towards the darkness deepening.
Do you know, when you are smiling?
In your eyes I can see the spark
Lighting the way...
 

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Sorry 'bout that :)
Me and Bovs...

I always pushed you know, Finnish songs, or things which I liked when I was talking to her.
And I still do! Cant help myself, gosh dammit! :D

But she was always so nice, and kind, she never said a bad word about my behaviour (even thou there was many, many reasons to do so) - it was unbelievable - and I truly love her for that. Absolutely. What a kind and beautiful person she is! Just amazing. I absolutely love her.

Bovs - you are the best! :)
 

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    Not too shabby, to be frank.
    What made your year rough, if you don't mind me asking?
    A bit much.Hubs passed away in January, 4 days later my gd’s house burnt,in June my bf died in a motorcycle crash.Then a couple weeks ago my sil almost died from a blood clot in his lung. That’s more than enough for me.
     

    marviner

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    A bit much.Hubs passed away in January, 4 days later my gd’s house burnt,in June my bf died in a motorcycle crash.Then a couple weeks ago my sil almost died from a blood clot in his lung. That’s more than enough for me.

    Oh man, I don't know what to say...
    That's a touch too much, if you ask me, brother.

    Nobody should take such a burden on their shoulders.
    That is too much.

    I'm so sorry.
    My goodness, I'm so sorry.

    Try to hang in there.
    That's all I can say
     

    marviner

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    I wish I could help. Honestly.

    Girl, you got friends, right?
    Don't keep it all in.
    Talk to your best friends about it, ok?
    Or somebody, who you can rely on.
    It's very important.
    When you talk somebody about it, you are dealing with it and you're helping yourself to heal.
    Take contact, don't close in, ok?
    Promise me that, even thou I'm just a random guy across the atlantic ocean. Ok?
    But hey, how often one gets friendly advice half a way round the planet, not too shabby after all :)

    I live in Finland. It's a nice place to be.
    Monty python guys made a song about Finland.

    Wanna hear it? Well, nevermind, I play it anyways :)

    All of this is meant to distract you, in a way, so that you can see what is out there. You are still alive. That must mean something. That must mean, that your story is not over. You've got things to do.

     
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    marviner

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    Marviner!!! It has been a long time, and of course I remember you! The songs we shared, your positive outlook on life, a friendship half a world away...I'm so happy to see you :wub:

    Thank you @classwife for herding Marvier in the right direction :)
    Oh my goodness!!
    It's so nice to hear about you after all of these years!!!

    I don't know what to say...
    It's so nice to hear about you, I'm out of words, honestly.
    Oh my goodness...
     

    Bovinia

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    I'm doing more that just fine...I'm doing better than ever!

    Gave my ex the final heave 'ho, got my mother in law settled into a nice dementia care home, moved 900 miles away, and bought a little house. Just my dog and me, and couldn't be more grateful :)

    Wonderful to hear you are doing good! You can scroll back a few hundred pages in this thread and follow my journey over the past 5 years since we last spoke :)
     
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