I don't have a single problem with Civil Disobedience in any form; it's the only possible answer to stupid laws. I don't construe Civil Disobedience as standing on your car with a bullhorn announcing that you feel Law x is stupid and therefore will not comply with it; it means doing whatever you're going to do, in private. In your home, or if out in public, in a discreet place and manner that doesn't draw attention. It's hard to stop people from doing things that no one knows they're doing.
And yeah I think the rebuildable stuff is where most long-time vapers end up, for this reason and probably a lot of others just as sound. Eventually I'll get there too, I'm sure, though I only just started.
And you're absolutely right about the right to life trumping anyone's "right" to pass and enforce stupid laws; in one of our own historical documents, there is a reference to "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness," as in, those are our rights. Denying smokers the option to vape is taking all three, because if they take your life, you have no liberty, and you damn sure can't have happiness if you're dead.
Andria