No, I'm not going to call my sister, she and I both like, know I have time. Nothing she is going to say is going to reassure me or not if she hasn't gotten to my stuff yet. It would be more reassuring to just get my FMLA in and approved, and whatever and also, if she says to file for this and it was unfair, I'm just going to organize and dump in the court o EEOC because life's too short. They can tell me if I have a reasonable issue, and worst case, I'm just going to implore the husband we get a small trailer and park it on our Tucson property for now.: Our neighbor did that one time for a pal who was like, really noisy and stayed several months. We have a homeowner's association which states, "This HOA is free forever and cannot be changed in perpetuity; please do what you want, within reason but I'm going to guess most things are pretty reasonable so if you think you are on the edge, please talk to your neighbors and work it out."
The guy behind us was a hoarder, and also had a salmon farm for awhile. Another neighbor like, built a "party shack" that was up high but was not sufficiently reinforced in ANY fashion he used single 2x4s to raise up "the shack" so it did not last long but was entertaining when it did.
So well, oy. We will see. It's kind of..... If I have to back to Tucson and settle in a trailer I will not be
thrilled, I also will not die, and at least we own a PLOT to which utilities are connected, which we can use. So, it is what it is. Going back to Tucson is not my idea scenario but there are complete limits to how much help I am willing to ask for from my mom, so that is what it will be.
Well the loan folks contacted me and said like, student debt is not that big a deal, it's more income to debt ratio or something. I'm using the top rated unsecured loan place and she was like, "it is more like debt to income ratio." Uh huh we'll see.
But well, whatever, IDK exactly what will come but I'm like, just continuing to move forward. Yoga today again and well, just dealing with what IS, etc.
Anna