Pretty obvious you'll never be happy in Tuscan. I would, therefore, be looking for other alternatives in a place you will like. Take the loan from your Mom and make it work.
Oh Fran, if only we could, but I don't think we can. I will be posting any personal content on my blog from now on. I have been told I have to, so that is where I will be, and well, I hope that allows some people to just leave me alone.
I will probably welcome new members and see where I can be helpful. That's where I seem to do best, but I kind of saw handwriting on the wall where someone attacked me so vindictively and like, so MUCH I was just like "Ignore Ignore!" for the first time and received defense from members of the thread and got the screaming response "I AM ADMIN NOT YOU."
Any other member-- that would have been an instant ban. I will say I like to blog and I will play on there, no one has to venture or see the thread "threadjacked." My "stupid and inane content that doesn't violate rules" as an Admin has so often said, well, no threads are good for me now to speak my mind.
I will stick to welcoming new members and reading and just posting on my blog. It seems to be best for all. I have no desire to cause ECF to suck for anyone. I also can't change who I am although less impulsivity in certain matters would probably be appropriate, I have no beef with that.
So, it's all good, when I get to it I will post my Mango Lassi flavor and how it turned out, LOL. Probably vile, that seems to be the way things have gone for a while.
IDK some people are just sources of annoyance. I guess I am such a one. I would not be lying if I said I was not sad, as I am. But all I can do is move me somewhere no one has to stress about, and frankly, it's happening everywhere, so why not here, right? I am who I am and perhaps there are times to bend like a willow and this is such a time. Sigh.
Anna