Apologies to everyone else in this thread for seeming bitter, it's because I am.
My friends here know how much my wife means to me. And her recent diagnosis has me spinning. It's why I have not been around. All her friends got together and took her to Utah for a 10 day girls trip. When she gets back she starts treatment.
My mindset is one that needs to stay away from people and under the circumstances, I definitely fail at being a social butterfly at the moment. I don't mind sharing crap about me, but when it comes to my dearest wife I am very protective.
This isn't a goodbye, but I definitely need to stay away...
My prayers to you and your wife.

KAS