unfortunately they're not here....due to covid they "moved out"
they still had school and stuff so my youngest is staying with her dad (whom has had covid at least twice now) and my oldest is in a sort of foster home while the beads program is working on getting her own apartment finally (they kept wanting to put her into group homes and no that's not what we want...I want her to be as independent as she can be, so finally they got the hint and was supposed to have an apt for her couple of weeks ago...apparently that fell through...they are looking at 2 bedroom apts, so eventually she'll have a roommate and a service provider will stop in periodically) she has a job now, so proud of her, working in an art museum, basically telling people don't touch and don't eat or drink....beads dropped the ball on her college, so not happy...I mean i get because of covid it was set back but now they haven't even talked about it anymore. Kiddo wants to wait though until things get back to normal, she doesn't want to do online school, but I also know the longer she waits the harder it will be for her to go back to school...school was never easy to begin with but taking a few years off won't help at all.
this is kind of a "trial run of being somewhat independent...mom's not there to do everything for you....but there's still adults in the home to help out with things"
between covid and my declining health, I really was not able to take care of either of them.
