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Dude, don't sweat it. This is posted in the GENERAL thread, after all. Anything goes, unless it needs to go OUTSIDE.
And those online dating services are a big ripoff. ESPECIALLY e-Harmony. I do not recommend them in the least.
The first love is always the worst, I feel for you man. Just hold in there, given enough time it gets better. I know that when I went through it nothing said could alleviate the pain. Just know that as with almost any wound, it heals over time.
it is better to have Loved and Lost, Than to be Stuck with a JERKET!
move on hun, this shows she was not the one for you, there are way better out there and the right one will come into your life when you least expect it,
NutttSo
move on hun, this shows she was not the one for you, there are way better out there and the right one will come into your life when you least expect it,
NutttSo
A dead relationship is one thing that drinking can make go away (as opposed to any other problems in life). Time is the only solution to a broken heart, and crying into your beer can make the time go much more smoothly.
yeah.. i would drink.. but i know i'll just end up getting angry and yeah... trying to avoid that..
Well with cheating, it's tough because you have all that rage built up along with the hurt. The anger will transition into depression. That's when you start drinking. Take it from a mick, we know these things.
Simple advice but the best you will ever get:
Nico...Man the hell up and quit throwing pity parties.
Mooby...woman like the men to be stronger than them. Ease up on the estrogen.
Nico...Man the hell up and quit throwing pity parties.
Mooby...woman like the men to be stronger than them. Ease up on the estrogen.
I am on Geek2geek dating site, but the only prospect I had turned in to a 3 week relationship and I went to see her and she broke up with me the day I came back.
pity parties? huh... i found out about her cheatn on me yestrday ....ive been planning a party for weeks....
i am seriously only clarifying.. i dont know you.. but i've been through alot of stuff RECENTLY that would turn yer head backwards... the best advice really is.. just man up.. get the feelings out and gone.. grow a pair and move on.. it TRULY is the absolute best advice you will ever get..
now the clarification...
I am on Geek2geek dating site, but the only prospect I had turned in to a 3 week relationship and I went to see her and she broke up with me the day I came back.
I have a friend that was down and out, he didn't think he was much of a ladies man. He tried a few dating site like that, then he started using this BBW dating site, and I don't even see him anymore. He gets lucky more than me, and I'm married! I miss my friend
Yes, to Mooby, Jim and Nico, we all know pain but MAN UP... You kicked his sas... did HE cheat on you?
Your agression is misplaced... I'm not saying to kick her sas but god man.. are you 12?
ok im gonna jump in here cause obviously a female needs to say something.
nico--she isn't worth it...worthless maybe but not worth it. hope you got it out of ur system with that guy. lol would have loved to see the pic of what you did to him
mooby--sweetie definitly u will find someone. u are a wonderful guy from what i have just seen posted here. now as for the rude a** who said lay off the estrogen..well this is one reason i fell in love with my hubby. yes woman love a man who can keep her safe..but we dont need a monkey man running all over the place to make sure it happens. a little sensitivity goes a long way and from what i saw you were trying to empathize with nico to let him know he wasn't alone.
now for u other men and i stress that sorta loosly...why pick on people. nico is down he came here to us to vent and to feel better dont knock him down when hes down enough, when/if it happend to you did it make u feel better when people cut you down??
nico/mooby...you will find love again......it always happens when we dont look..
i had gotten out of a 2.5 year relationship that i thought was going somewhere within a month he was crawling back and that same day i met who would become my hubs and ive been with him for 12 years now. so anything is possible. go out have fun...thats all i can say!!
nico--she isn't worth it...worthless maybe but not worth it. hope you got it out of ur system with that guy. lol would have loved to see the pic of what you did to him
mooby--sweetie definitly u will find someone. u are a wonderful guy from what i have just seen posted here. now as for the rude a** who said lay off the estrogen..well this is one reason i fell in love with my hubby. yes woman love a man who can keep her safe..but we dont need a monkey man running all over the place to make sure it happens. a little sensitivity goes a long way and from what i saw you were trying to empathize with nico to let him know he wasn't alone.
now for u other men and i stress that sorta loosly...why pick on people. nico is down he came here to us to vent and to feel better dont knock him down when hes down enough, when/if it happend to you did it make u feel better when people cut you down??
nico/mooby...you will find love again......it always happens when we dont look..
i had gotten out of a 2.5 year relationship that i thought was going somewhere within a month he was crawling back and that same day i met who would become my hubs and ive been with him for 12 years now. so anything is possible. go out have fun...thats all i can say!!
are you trying to say it's mean to tell him to get over it and move on?
might it have occured to you that maybe that IS what is needed? wallowing in one's sorrows has NEVER... did you read that word correctly?.. NEVER solved any emotional problem.. be you man or woman.
when you've been kicked down into the gutter.. you aint getting nowhere until you pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back into the fight.
my sympathies to thier pain.. but they can do nothing more than stagnate while they cry about it.. it's time to get over it and stand up and try again... and the sooner the better
There's nothing wrong with having feelings. Unless your one of those manly mans (the ones with suppressed homosexual feelings that end up overcompensating by wearing jeans, jean shirts, and jean jackets and acting tough as nails with no emotions).
Now on the other hand. What's the rule. A week for every year you've been together. So take you three weeks and sit around in your boxers eating spam and drinking o.j. straight out of the jug. Best of luck.
note i said to get the feelings out... not supress.. not deny.. not to rid.. just get them out and get on with it
seriously why so hostile...im talking about the man up comment that was just rude and uncalled for. and i posted on the first page about getting up and dusting off...so dont go off on me for being level headed and offering some support...that is why we are all hear right support, and compassion...chill out man... some people when they pour their hearts out dont need other people to slam it in their faces...seriously baad taste
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