I was on this thread early on and have now caught up with it - woah! What a story and a huge congrats to lostsoulcig for persevering. One thing I'd like to do is apologize to lostsoulcig for sounding a bit pompous about having to open up to her husband before anything. Worked in my case with my wife, but everyone's situation is different (and in her case, there's past history of hurt and sadness on the part of her husband who has lost so many to analogs) which makes our approaches different. As everyone has stated here, our job is to provide support as a community, not to judge, and to (and I say this with no sense of drama, just the truth) help save lives. Let's be honest, it's all about quitting stickies and living long enough to have a wonderful and long life of arguments with our spouses, isn't it? ;-)
All the best to you lostsoulcig and let us know how you're enjoying that volt! We're rooting for ya!
All the best to you lostsoulcig and let us know how you're enjoying that volt! We're rooting for ya!