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shakey ceasefire

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.... strength and patience to tolerate stupidity!)


Newbs ain't stupid. They're just new at this. Most of 'em are probably pretty smart, actually. This subculture is not the easiest one to figure out, at first. But hey, everyone is entitled to speak freely. That's free speech, as you say.

But it's a little different when you are possibly jeopardizing someone's rep as a business owner, or even their livelihood. The hangin' party that ensued was WAY out of proportion to the perceived crime, if there even was one.

I miss reading Kate's posts too, and you are right, she was pretty much the authority around here in a lot of ways. Perhaps that's why it was it was such a problem for SJ when she decided that Parked must be destroyed. It was going too far, in his mind, I'd guess. It looked like it was never going to end...

oh wait...
 

apathyps

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this is by far the worst ****ing thread that i have come across on this forum in my 1 week of membership.

shoulda been locked on the first page. should still be locked now. if not only to prevent bumps so it keeps coming up.

i read through this, it sucks. kate went over the edge a bit with how she felt. looks like she let her emotions take over. i personally read quite a few of her helpful posts in other threads. but .......n that was some unnecessary rage.

simple fact is, as i see it at least, this is a privately owned forum, there was no evidence for the claim, SJ warned her to chill, parked answered the questions, kate kept pushing the issue.

game over man

on a lighter note, thank you parked for shipping out my DSE901 so quickly. im lovin it, except for the super tight carts. going to take spikey's advice and try to sand down the wall abit.

SOMEONE PLEASE LOCK THIS THREAD FOR THE GOOD OF THE COMMUNITY.
 

shakey ceasefire

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if i could have locked it i would of myself however at a certain point in the kate rants she said and dared to be banned i think at a certian point she just said who cares and went full bore

It was like wack-a-mole. Threads locked, a new one would start. This kind of crap happens in all forums, as soon as they get popular.
 

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Newbs ain't stupid. They're just new at this. Most of 'em are probably pretty smart, actually. This subculture is not the easiest one to figure out, at first. But hey, everyone is entitled to speak freely. That's free speech, as you say.

But it's a little different when you are possibly jeopardizing someone's rep as a business owner, or even their livelihood. The hangin' party that ensued was WAY out of proportion to the perceived crime, if there even was one.

I miss reading Kate's posts too, and you are right, she was pretty much the authority around here in a lot of ways. Perhaps that's why it was it was such a problem for SJ when she decided that Parked must be destroyed. It was going too far, in his mind, I'd guess. It looked like it was never going to end...

oh wait...

Ditto... it's very hard to 'search' on the forum for things you don't even understand yet! So much to learn... e-cigs with different model numbers = the same thing... VG and PG rarely spelled out... not to mention SO many other terms that are all new words just to this world of e-cigs!

Kate had the patience of a saint... or hmmm at least a nun :nun: with the newbs... and I certainly hope that she'll be back... we need her here!
 

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Personally, (apart from the use of unnecessary swearing) I believe in totally free and unmoderated speech..... How can you know what a person's true character is if they are being suppressed and not being allowed to speak freely? and whether I agree or disagree with a persons opinions I still want to know what they are. There is far too much 'thought' control and modification going on in the world.
 

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I don't understand the fear of SJ concerning defamation of character? The ONLY person even minimally responsible for her words are Kate herself regarding Parked. The admin of the forum isn't responsible for the words of it's members!

Forum Rules said:
All messages express the views of the author, and neither the owners of e-cigarette-forum.com, nor Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd. (developers of vBulletin) will be held responsible for the content of any message.

So, it really would be impossible for Kate to "take down" the forum as SJ seems to imply, regardless of what anyone says about anyone here on the forum. All SJ would be responsible for is turning over all relevant information (login, profile details, IP address and forum database file) about a forum member to the authorities that requested it legally.

I think the banning of Kate under the assumption that SJ and this forum would be held liable if Parked sued this forum for defamation of character goes right out the effing window. If you don't believe me, call a lawyer versed in internet law and ask.

So aside from any legal liabilities since a forum owner is held harmless from charges between members (as Parked agreed that the forum isn't responsible about what's said)... what was Kate banned for?

When the forum has to fear action from the suppliers, than that just changes the whole damned dynamic of this place, imho.

I think that if a supplier tried to sue the forum admin and owner (which would be a fücking joke in an of itself, lol) they'd be crucifying themselves. Also, the admin could just remove them from the list and send them on their merry way.

The forum owner here shouldn't be banning members in fear of suppliers actions... that leaves a bad taste in my mouth, to be frank. Yeah, I'm new here but I've started, ran, moderated (and even closed!) many forums in my time and so I know my way around the ole 'net, so to speak.

Frankly, I can feel Kate's frustration but this is SJ's ship and if he wants to run it in fear of (or cater to) suppliers or whatever, that's his call.

I won't speak on the issue of Parked's reviews vs. his commercial interests and plans or whatever. I will say that if someone has something to say about it, they should be able to speak on it (regardless of what words they use). On the same token I think that most likely Kate wouldn't have gotten banned of she used a bit less pointed language.

Why can't we all agree to disagree? Kate got heated, we all do at times and so did some other folks on this forum. However, the level of fear regarding legal issues here were greatly misplaced and if they were factored into the reasoning behind Kate's ban, then they need to be seriously reconsidered and perhaps removing the ban from Kate with the understanding that she avoid the use of certain words because of their inflammatory nature.

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On a side note... I think it'd be suicide for a supplier to try and sue this forum. Let's say that a supplier managed to sue and the legal battle caused the forum to get shut down? He'd kiss his customer base good-bye. Seriously, word travels fast and someone even being connected to the fall of forum such as this one would be black-balled forever, imho. This forum is a prized marketing ground for lots of suppliers and a cherished meeting place for many e-smokers but the users of this forum should always take precedence over the suppliers or else this place will lose it's charm and the trust that it has.
 

TheEmperorOfIceCream

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So aside from any legal liabilities since a forum owner is held harmless from charges between members (as Parked agreed that the forum isn't responsible about what's said)... what was Kate banned for?


For testing the owner's patience too far. It stopped being about the original issue around the time the first thread was locked. In the normal run of things, forum traffic buries crap like this but Kate wouldn't let it go (I think it was unwise to OP the two follow-up threads - that's gotta ring a bell).

Having publicly given conduct warnings, Joe was more or less forced into the ban when they were ignored.

Nothing could have happened except what did...
 

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Have not been involved in this in any way whatsoever (and don't want to get involved now) but one thing I can say with certainty is that forum owners CAN be held liable for allowing defamatory statements by forum members - despite the 'disclaimer' in the rules.

There have been court cases on the subject.

PS - I co-own a busy forum myself (nothing to do with e-cigs) and have been in this position several times (including being threatenend with legal action on numerous occasions and receiving a huge back-lash from the forum members for quashing what they see as 'free speech').
 
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trog100

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I love when people take it upon themselves to decide what is good for the community. One day I hope to have the keen insight required to control others people's lives.

interesting stuff this.. the thread is now talking sense.. the heat has gone..

but there is no such thing as "free speech" is just a modern dream idea.. say the wrong thing to the wrong person and there will be consequences..

this place isnt a public forum its owned by someone and that someone has to control it..

that someone is in control of peoples forum lives.. it does take wisdom..

this little village has turned into a city.. a city has to be run under a different set of rules than a village..

joes forum is secure.. it has no competition.. the members want freedom of speech on one hand but freedom from things they dont want to hear on the other hand.. some f-cking freedom of speech idea that aint it..

the freedom for us to only f-cking hear what we want to hear... jeesh.. what a bunch of plonkers.. he he

sorry folks but some things have to be said..

trog
 

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Noted: but (and I may be wrong here) but isn't SJ UK based?

In which case it is likely that any case would be based this side of the pond.

As far as I m aware, it has not actually been tested in the UK courts, but it has been in the EU (which would hold more sway in the UK), where is was held that the forum owner DID owe a duty of care. (Can't find the link at the moment. GRRRRR). The decision in the case I am speaking about as been questioned and it may be that subsequent case law would reverse this precedent, but do you really think that any forum owner would want to put themselves in the position of having to go to the expense to prove it?
 

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It's not about the law, it's about the rules. They're not particularly oppressive, but breakin' 'em gets ya banned. It's not illegal for my houseguests to fart the national anthem but I'd boot 'em for it...

Sorry about the earthy analogy - I don't really do refined...

Emp

Yeah..that's true. All except the booting for farting the national anthem part. Nobody ejects the gifted.
 
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