Just as an update, I got my Xeta today. I guessed at what internal parts I need to use and threw a somewhat normal (for me) build in it. I've been through about half a boro so far.
I've seen statements like I'm about to make come back and bite the original poster. But this thing is very, very, good. It's easy to build and work with. Even without trying any of the fine tuning adjustments, it is every bit as good as my Exocet - and on the first build. One added plus is that I am getting zero condensation below the boro. I've always put up with this as even the best BB bridges did it to some extent and I figured it was all just part of getting a really flavorful, saturated vape. Somehow, Haku seems to have figured this out and eliminated the problem.
As for the fb thing, I was exactly like the rest of you until a couple of years ago. But my frustration on missing out on really good gear caused me to go ahead and sign up for that toxic site. Without going into detail, I can assure all of you that no one would recogmize me over there - not the name, not the location, nothing. Approaching it from that standpoint has resulted in zero problems with the advantage of being able to get some of the best devices I own. I don't visit any sites there other than some selected vape related ones.