I had to hospitalize my husband a few years ago,, my income is good but no insurance. (i did have to pay $250 right then & there for them to look at him) the bill came to $55,000. We were both smokers at the time,, so I had to approach every dr & the hospital for a reduced bill,, 2 points helped immensely,,, I approached the worst dr first,, he was an As*s. He agreed to a reduced rate but I had to pay him off in 3 months,, &if i was 30seconds late then I owed him everything. I paid him off first fast and early. (As*shole training complete) next I went to the hospital,, the girl looking over the bill ran some numbers and told me if I will agree to direct debit monthly for payment she could knock my bill down to what the state & insurance companies actually pay- that was a 80% discount!!! I set up the direct debit form,, 1 year later the hospital was paid off,,, (learn the insider secret math-done),, next I had a couple of minor Dr s & lab to work with,,, each were very good to work with.
I explained to all of these providers, that obviously my husband cant work to pay the bill,,, & I smoke & with extreme stress to the point I'm kind of surprised I'm still alive,, but I guarantee if I die you won't get paid because he would just pack up and go back to family home in another state
At the end on 1 year I had them all paid off at $14,000
What did I learn: stand up for yourself,, contact the providers &work out a deal, you will get better making the deals as time goes on
What did I really learn about my views on healthcare,,, well 90% of it is your life style,, clean that up & save myself a lot of worries. My grandparents lived long lives & they didn't bow down to the healthcare industry. So I made changes to my life, diet, stopped smoking, picked up hobbies to make my body stronger, gym/biking/walking.
Part of me doesn't want to 'buy' medicare when the time comes,, I know I wont be buying 'part A B C D E F G,,,,,'.. A Bare bones package only in case I get in an accident or something,, part of me doesn't want to buy anything at all. I have an HSA I fund religiously.