Hi Lisa,
I just thought of this. My sisters daughter has a friend who ordered an ecig online. She's 14. This doesnt help our cause at all. Sis and brother-in-law aren't pleased. It just puts ecigs in bad light whether that's rational or not. They think ecigs are stupid but better than smoking. Its hard to be perfect. I have to hear that it would be so much better if you didn't need those things.
Well, your sister's daughter's friend is a liar, she had to lie about her age to get it online right? That is on her. Where did she get the credit for it? That is on whoever allows her to shop online providing her with a means and no supervision. Perhaps your sister shouldn't permit her daughter to be associated with a lying, unsupervised child? No way my kids had the ability to do such a thing at 14. Their internet access was extremely limited at that age, and no facebook either back then, and no cell phone at that age either. But then their father is a paranoid cop and wouldn't let me get them even a simple phone so my kids are kind of the other extreme of parental supervision!
I've done something similar. I am my mother's representative payee...meaning I am legally responsible for her money and I have to submit her account details yearly for review by the SSA to make sure I'm not using her funds for anything but her needs and wants. Her account is at the same CU as mine and the checkbooks and checks are identical save for account number and one name. I ended up mistaking the two books and paid for a bunch of stuff for my daughter using my mom's account.
Took me a few days to realize what happened...and ended up transferring funds from my account to hers to cover the debt. That could have cost me in much bigger ways had I not fixed it. Glad you got it figured out though...you won't make that mistake twice.
And don't even get me started on responsible parenting.
I'm no saint, but jeez. 