We both have perfected that.

But both of us will admit, me mostly, when we are good we are really, really good. A few years after DD married her DH, Hyper Type A personality, even more brillint than she, musician/exucutive chef, quick with explosive anger outburst, (I think that may go with "chef", too at least with males of our species - I doubt Chefs Jen and Smurf carry that "gene.") (And Ratman, who was in the industry for many years seems to be devoid of the trait.

) confided in me that now she understands what I dealt with for so many years. Like DD and her DH my DH and I are our truest, most devoted best friends most of the time. Main difference is my DH is stuborn, THE Ultimate Fatalistic Pessimist, and I can't convince him to think or do anything. Really p I s s e s me off major at times. Avoidance is best way to deal with it but hard to do when we are living in only half of the house, open plan. I would joyfully accept and relish constructive critism 0.05% of the time.:banghead:
Feisty Alice
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