unsupportive spouses..

[TomCatt]

HOLY CRAP!! Thank you for that.
That makes a lot of sense, and explains so many things that seem to make no sense.

I've never pretended to understand women, I've just basically learned how to get along with them.
Now for the first time I feel like I might have a chance at some understanding too!

.... or maybe not!


My wife continues to smoke although every few weeks she'll dig out her 510 slim and say "I gotta quit smoking".

The only grief she gives me is about the modding supplies I buy. "How many of those do you need???" "I thought you said you had enough stuff and weren't buying any more??"

Hey, what can I say? eBay's got some deals

She'll get over it, or not, her choice.

 

[DC2]

.... or maybe not!

Yeah, you're probably right.


I got lucky though, because I married the most reasonable women I've ever met.
Which is good, because I'm a very reasonable guy.

We can talk through just about anything, and help each other understand what each other is thinking and feeling.

Well, actually, I always know what I'm thinking and feeling.
But sometimes she needs some clarification on what's going on in her head.

Or maybe she does know, but just needs a little guidance in how to explain it to me in a way a guy would understand.
The truth is, I really haven't figured out yet if she usually knows what she's feeling or not.

 

[TomCatt]

Oh, so Situation Normal there DC?

 

[Shel]

I will never understand ex-smokers who are so intolerent of smokers. how soon they forget the persecution.............

Ex-smoker nazis... man... they're the worst!

 

[BluSwatch]

....... My money, I'll get what I want. He's never asked what I've spent on my collection, and I don't tell him.

Same with our house ..... my pension = my $$ ...... his pension = his $$

 

[Detroit]

Same with our house ..... my pension = my $$ ...... his pension = his $$

thats how it is with me and my girl too! just seems to work out much better that way! have it all be "our" money gets old fast.

 

[BluSwatch]

Especially when "our" money is spent on things that aren't "ours" .....

 

[byggd]

Sorry to hear that. My wife and I both started vaping at the same time. She actually did better than me as i was still having 3 of 4 cigs a day and she was at 0 but we both keep supporting each other.

 

[Detroit]

Especially when "our" money is spent on things that aren't "ours" .....

haha definitly!!! "ours" turns into make up, lady things and umm i dont use that stuff lol


glad you and your wife were able to quit together byggd! i wish mine would stop the cigs but to each there own i geuss.. in time perhaps.

 

[Detroit]

UPDATE!!! i just put a order in to health cabin and out of left feild my girl says "can you order me a bottle of mint,doubble mint and menthol?" LOL i was like YEP SURE CAN! she put down her cigs at 8 and been vapin with me sence. longest shes payed attention and been intrested in it! also just layed down 80$ and she didnt get mad at all hmm what did she do wrong? lol

and because i cant help it heres what i ordered lol


5-ego-t automizers
50ml-menthol
50ml-ry4
50ml-red usa mix
30ml-mint
30ml-double mint
battery protector for her ego.
XL carring case (she has a reg one, i want one for myself but bigger lol)
6-empty 10ml bottles w/ dripper cap.

**im puttin one of the ego-t attys on her ego batt so dont think i forgot her lol**

all from healthcabin.net

im sooo excited i wish it was next week! lol ps. were both chain vapin like a .... tonight lol

 

[BluSwatch]

Way to go .... how is she liking it??

 

[Detroit]

very much but shes went threw a tank and a half of my fire n ice hmm im almost out lol it went dead and she said "oooooooh man i gotta charge it!" and i plugged in her usb cord and shes like "that is so cool!!!" lol she seems real into it. ithink she'll be wanting batterys before long

 

[MegaBee]

very much but shes went threw a tank and a half of my fire n ice hmm im almost out lol it went dead and she said "oooooooh man i gotta charge it!" and i plugged in her usb cord and shes like "that is so cool!!!" lol she seems real into it. ithink she'll be wanting batterys before long

This sounds very much like a happy ending! Congrats to you both and Merry Christmas


Last cigarette 16th October, 2011. Forever grateful for the support and advice from ECF.

 

[swest31]

Glad to hear everything is getting better. I wanted to post the same thing but didn't. I to hope to convert my wife. Is your wife from Texas? Seems Texas girls are so stubborn at times.

LOL

 

[Detroit]

haha nope my girl grew up in the ghetto in ohio lol yeah today she didnt take hers with her and she kept stealing mine lol looking good so far

 

[Detroit]

haha just had my first "panic PV moment" gettin ready to go to the mother-in-laws for the day (8 hours or so) i packed 2 ego batterys my cheap 21st centry batt(with cartomizers) about 7ml of liquid and 2 spare tanks(ego) and now im thinking about taking my charger too... i know i wont need it.. but for some reason im worryed somthins gonna go wrong lol go ahead laugh at me everyone eles is lmao thought ide share my madness of the day.

 

[Glam]

Detoit: You can never be overprepared for any situation that might develop for us vapers.....what if an earthquake destroyed all the bridges and you could not get home? Whenever I leave the house, I try to be prepared for the worst-case scenario...be it the Apocalypse, Armageddon, enemy attack, unpredicted storm, forest fire, etc.......my little tackle box goes with me, JUST IN CASE. Peace of mind is definitely worth picking up that box and taking it with me.

 

[Detroit]

i agree 100% i took what thought was alot and ended up using alot of it between me and my girl lol good thing my case will be bigger so i can pack more and she can pack her own.

 

[BluSwatch]

I had my clearomizer tank flame out on me at my folks' place, and thankfully I got to Walgreens to get some Blu cartos. I brought everything BUT extra clearo/cartos.

Detroit - keep an eye on the classies, you can pick up extra batteries cheap from time to time. Good for spares and back-ups.

 

[Detroit]

im getting ready to buy a box mod then we'll both be good on batts lol. so far shes been cuttin her cig intake in half with it, shes been telling people about it too lol lookin good!