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maybe this is just me but I would have given her a really strong 36mg bad flavor juice so she would find it really disgusting

Yeah that's an idea. Find your nastiest perfume juice, they wouldn't come back. Funny thing is though this brings us back to my original question. Why are we hiding it and purposely steering our kids away if we firmly believe it's perfectly ok and a good thing for us?

Maybe some are like me where I truly only vape to stay off the smokes and don't want to influence my kids even with vaping just because of my old habit? Anyone? I'm just hesitant to let it all out in front of them and not care. The feedback here has been great. I have nothing against anyone who puts it out in the open with their kids or even teens it's actually refreshing to see.
 
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Yeah that's an idea. Find your nastiest perfume juice, they wouldn't come back. Funny thing is though this brings us back to my original question. Why are we hiding it and purposely steering our kids away if we firmly believe it's perfectly ok and a good thing for us?

Maybe some are like me where I truly only vape to stay off the smokes and don't want to influence my kids even with vaping just because of my old habit? Anyone? I'm just hesitant to let it all out in front of them and not care. The feedback here has been great. I have nothing against anyone who puts it out in the open with their kids or even teens it's actually refreshing to see.


I don't dis-agree with you, and the only reason I vape is because I used vaping to quit cigarettes. I would rather my kids do neither. I do vape in front of my kids but still preach against it, because it's still a big PIA. Although it's still a big improvement over smoking.
 

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Yeah that's an idea. Find your nastiest perfume juice, they wouldn't come back. Funny thing is though this brings us back to my original question. Why are we hiding it and purposely steering our kids away if we firmly believe it's perfectly ok and a good thing for us?

Maybe some are like me where I truly only vape to stay off the smokes and don't want to influence my kids even with vaping just because of my old habit? Anyone? I'm just hesitant to let it all out in front of them and not care. The feedback here has been great. I have nothing against anyone who puts it out in the open with their kids or even teens it's actually refreshing to see.

I hide nothing from my kids. I tell them there are things for adults and things for children. When they are adults, they will be able to make their choices in life and live with those choices.

Why hide it?

I can tell you this. .01% of this my parents did when I was a kid I do not do. My mom comes over all the time to see the grandkids and she looks at me and says "this would never have been done in our house when you were a kid". I say thanks mom you did a great job raising 4 kids yourself, but it is my turn now.
 
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I have a 6 year old and 9 year old. I vape in the car and home but blow away from them and keep the windows open in the car. Both were always asking me to quit cigarettes so when I went to vaping I explained that this was not smoking and helped daddy stay away from cigarettes. For a while they would count the days since I last smoked but now it's just a memory (six months). I never smoked cigarettes around them but don't feel the same with vaping, at all.
 

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Yeah that's an idea. Find your nastiest perfume juice, they wouldn't come back. Funny thing is though this brings us back to my original question. Why are we hiding it and purposely steering our kids away if we firmly believe it's perfectly ok and a good thing for us?

Maybe some are like me where I truly only vape to stay off the smokes and don't want to influence my kids even with vaping just because of my old habit? Anyone? I'm just hesitant to let it all out in front of them and not care. The feedback here has been great. I have nothing against anyone who puts it out in the open with their kids or even teens it's actually refreshing to see.
For me, it's because my family had absolutely nothing to do with my decision to smoke. My dad smoked, but I hadn't even seen the old man in 8 years before I picked up the habit. My mom had asthma and is firmly against smoking. Smoking was something my co-workers did at work. I tried it, I liked it and I became hooked. My daughter will make the decisions she wishes whether she sees me do these things or not, so why bother hiding it or pretending there is something wrong with it?
 

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I believe that the same education that we try to impart onto curious onlookers should also be shared at home.

When I was still a smoker, I had in-depth conversations with my kids about smoking and all of the dangers that accompanied it. The anti-smoking campaign begins very early in their schools (they start warning them in kindergarten!) and so I wanted to carry on those conversations at home. When they would come home from school and I was out on the back deck having a cigarette, I would have four little faces plastered to inside of the sliding glass door and telling me that I was killing myself. I agreed! The discussions that took place following were opportunities for them to understand a little bit about how strong addiction can be and how addiction can influence, otherwise sane individuals, to make bad (health) choices. I would like to think that for them, seeing and experiencing my own struggle with addiction (to nicotine) is a strong deterrent to them to ever even try cigarettes. We also discussed other products with addictive properties (caffeine, opiates/drugs/painkillers, etc.)

When I decided to give vaping a try, I was excited about it and discussed it with my kids. I explained how it was different from cigarettes (burning tobacco), what the ingredients were and how those ingredients might affect my health. We even looked up the ingredients together on the internet to find out more about them. My kids agree that vaping is much less harmful to me (and to them) than smoking cigarettes. When we see something on the news with regard to vaping, I'm surprised (and proud) to see how well they are able to dissect fact from speculation all on their own. Not only are they forward thinkers, but also independent thinkers (at least as far as the media is concerned :p).
 

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I believe that the same education that we try to impart onto curious onlookers should also be shared at home.

I'm not sure about this. I don't know if my son would handle it well if I yelled at him "What the hell are you looking at?!?!? Huh? You want some of this?!?!?!? Do you want me to cut you?" like I do with strangers who stare at me vaping.
 

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I'm not sure about this. I don't know if my son would handle it well if I yelled at him "What the hell are you looking at?!?!? Huh? You want some of this?!?!?!? Do you want me to cut you?" like I do with strangers who stare at me vaping.

Hahaha, touche! Ain't nobody got time for that!!!
 
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