Over the years of traveling the world going to various places - some good, most bad - I've reached the following conclusions:
1) Trust no one, you live longer.
2) Other people suck.
3) It's easier to ask forgiveness than permission (notable exceptions: any country that has Islam as the official religion)
4) No one complains about what the man with the large automatic weapon is doing. (notable exceptions: North America and Europe)
5) Common sense is not so common. (particularly in Middle Eastern countries where insanity rules the day)
I don't like hanging out talking all the time in restaurants, I go in and eat, pay, then quickly leave the premises and then do what I want outside, or in my car, or in my home.
I don't like the whole "bar scene" in the U.S. at all, so I don't go to those places - and I avoid a veritable crap-ton of problems doing so.
Any state that doesn't recognize one of my many concealed-carry permits is not a state to spend any money in, so I never visit them and avoid a crap-ton of problems doing so. Such states also tend to like irrationally banning things at the drop of a hat too, such a Cali's ban on .50 CAL rifles, NJ's ban on hollow-point ammo, and Illinois' ban on anything that the Chicago Mayor and Chicago City Council don't like. I speak with my vote and my dollars.
I find statewide/citywide bans on "smoking" complete insanity and pretty much against the intent of the Constitution so I choose not to live in those psycho places.
I like to live in places where the property owner gets to decide what people visiting his or her place of business can do.