When he was in the hospital and the nursing home for rehab, he ready to have an aide with he went back to assisted living (and to get rid of the rug in his bedroom.) But, as soon as he felt a little better…
There is definitely an element of trying to retain control of his life. I get it. But the single thing he wants most is to remain in assisted living and not have to move to the nursing home. Kendal, the community he's in is doing everything they can to ensure that he gets to stay in assisted living and he's fighting every step of the way.
Oh, well. This too shall pass. Eventually.
When it's my time, my solution is that I live alone so I get to die in my own apartment. And I intend for it to be well before I'm 93.