Not quite. I bought a "good" one not that long ago... when i started vaping 2 months + ago. If that's how normal analog smoking was for you, I'm not quite sure what you were smoking. It was MUCH more difficult. and the carts definitely do still have a lag time unless you're filling yourself.
As for pressing the button... I bought an Ego-T just a week and a half ago. I had no problem adjusting. My brain puts it akin to wrapping my fingers around the end of an analog to get a drag. Easy Peasy.
My fiance tried my auto PV and hated it. He likes the idea of vaping, but certainly wouldn't go that route.
Does it have its place? Yes, if it wasn't for those I wouldn't be vaping. However if I had found this forum first, I would have certainly gone for the Ego-t I think. Its simpler, in my mind, to fill the tank, pop it on the atty, screw atty to battery, and go. None of the push up the cart, take the foil off, push it down, put it on, take a couple drags, charge battery... I took a 10 hour road trip to see my fiance, and I can't COUNT how many times I had to charge batteries on my little pv. My Ego lasts me all day.
I don't know if Ego's count as Mods, but I'm pretty unaware when it comes to hardware. I don't wire things. I don't take things apart any more than I absolutely have to. I want the easiest, least messy way of getting my nicotine and vapor without a high cost involved. IMHO the analog like pvs may be a great start, and have their place, they are at the same time causing problems with legislation and education due to their appearance being akin to an analog. Most likely its all based on personal experience. I know sucking on the tube I had was nothing like an analog, but I stuck with it cuz I'm a stubborn PITA and I spent the money on it so I'm using it gosh darn it. My fiance will be getting his own Ego because the small ones were just way too much work as far as getting an acceptable amount of vapor and being convenient for use. Whatever works for you. But I do believe they are causing problems with educating people because they cannot see past the "looks like a cigarette" part, which is why so many places have problems with them (bars).
Back on topic -- welcome Trev and thank you for having an open mind, and being willing to accept and explain things in your establishment! Enjoy being smoke-free!