IDK, I see your point, but music is supposed to be
fun and I am very anti-censorship, honestly so I didn't really mind much (the fact that rap doesn't bother me helped) and I had plenty of bigger battles to fight. The kiddo is living out on his own at 20 and working and attending college part time, so I think things didn't go too badly.
There are times (like rush hour) where I require silence in my car, but I never minded hearing the latest and greatest ode to sex, drugs, and rock-n-roll in my vehicle, so that helped. It just wasn't my fight, and I have to admit, in some ways I find rap the most innovative genre these days. Classical music is essentially dead (I've listened to a lot of it and almost went to Julliard for the violin back in the day, I'm so glad I DIDN'T but I've heard and played enough classical to last me pretty much forever....) pop is.... a revolting trainwreck that is essentially stealing from other genres and old songs (I heard an OLD Madonna song remixed the other day, LOL, so sad, though there are a few decent bands still), I can listen to my old favorites whenever I want. Country is pretty much the same, some of those older legacy bands where they replace the musicians as they die off can be interesting.... Hip hop is really a subset of rap, honestly, and it's not a terrible blend.
Mainly, I freaking blame rap for the invention of Auto Tune, I was listening to some Dolly Parton the other day, and people used to really be able to
sing. Not so much these days, unfortunately.... And everything's sped up to sound "more whatever" so you can't even listen to it if you have perfect pitch. I will at least credit rap with using Auto Tune properly, which is for EFFECT, not the ability to shove some chick with daddy issues and a lot of plastic surgery in front of a microphone. But, for example, when I heard Coldplay live at the super bowl that year... well, respect Coldplay, for NOT using live autotune, but Chris can NOT sing in tune, it's sad.
Oh, no one mentioned STING!!! Musical genius as well, and I got to see him live during his Soul Cages phase.... The best, except for the screaming teenagers who had to jump up and down the entire time LOL.
Tory Amos could sing, too, and she wrote her own stuff.... Susanne Vega? Alanis Morisette? So many more, my husband has a mix with them titled, "Chicks with issues". And let us not forget Florence Against the Machine, that woman has PIPES.
Kiddo doesn't have a car these days, so if he wants to enjoy his music in my vehicle when we go places, I have no issues with it and do I want to listen to Carrie Underwood smash up some dude's car for the eleventy-jillionth time? I don't, not that she's a terrible singer, but meh
That permission to derail the thread, so glad it was invoked, LOL.
Anna