No offense taken but I have issues with what you are saying. I don't believe the problem is at my end because of the reason I stated above. I'm using Kirsh skin and not using many add-ons in my browsers, just adblockers. As for videos...most of the videos I've seen in posts are not thumbnails, they are the actual youtube vids. While one is loading I can't even scroll past it until it has completely loaded.
Again, that's NOT normal and therefore leads ME to believe it's not something that ECF can fix (short of banning the posting of videos. Which obviously isn't a good idea because it hurts everyone just because SOME people experience a slowdown. I'd rather see ECF (and/or tech people) help those who are having issues like yours work with members to determine a solution, not just throw out the proverbial "baby with the bathwater"!)
How does it help to know if there is a server along the way to ECF that is slow? There isn't much we can do about that is there? I'm not techie so this is beyond me.
Because it'd at least determine IF there's something that can be done. If it pings fine, then we know it's not a server issue and instead is a software/? issue (either ECF's or the member's).