However, the whole attitude that we feel we have to admit to vaping instead of smoking as if we're cheating really irks me. It irks me because it insinuates a need to feel shame. It puts moral judgment on smoking and vaping.
I might not think it so strange and ridiculous if I were younger, if I weren't from a time when everyone smoked everywhere, in the grocery store, in the doctor's office, in classrooms, in hospitals, . . .
I just wanted to clarify that I was not meaning at all that others should feel shame or add qualifiers to their non-smoking status. I know with me it is a psychological thing and it has to do with shame to some degree. For instance, I never once posted on my now-defunct Facebook page that I quit smoking. As a matter of fact, I never mentioned smoking on Facebook at all. I am also one of the vapers out there who does not vape inside stores or restaurants. I use it in public, not necessarily in designated smoking areas, but always outdoors.
There is an age difference as well. I started smoking in the second half of the 90's. I also grew up in a conservative Baptist church. I remember leaving Sunday services and watching my mom have a nic fit because she wouldn't light up until we were far from the church and all the perfume and gum she constantly had with her.
At the same time, I am the only one in my family who defends her right to smoke (she's 63 and comes from the era of everyone smoking).
She feels a lot of shame but has never been able to quit or switch to a PV, though she keeps trying the PV. My father quit years ago with little difficulty like some people seem to do and just figures that she has no discipline. I always tell her it is her right to make her own choice and that she is a wonderful person and that anyone judging her for her smoking is flat-out wrong. As a smoker, I was the type that would smoke well away from people and then have the random person seem to go out of their way to get into my smoke and start fake coughing, and I generally did not respond to that very politely.