Your expectations are extremely high.
seems like maybe he has a little more basic respect for people...... and also maybe actually "cares" a little.
To be honest, I don't even look in on the topics about people blowing their faces off anymore.
Because you'll go 10+ posts into the topic, often more......... before
anyone even says something like "I hope this person is okay, has anyone heard anything?" The person it happened to is merely a distant afterthought now.
Because of course, they are (insert denigrating insult here). The topics becomes a huge launch into how dumb everybody is, then how dumb the reporters are (I guess for not being able to explain why and how the accident happened because, like about 1/2 of members on even a vaping forum, they don't actually KNOW that your shouldn't put certain toppers on hybrid mods, or use certain batteries), how dumb all the vape store employees are, and how everyone is out to get us.
Back when I started vaping, it was
common to care about fellow vapers. the guy who helped me, he honestly thought that maybe my next cig would be the one to kill me, so he helped me with a purchase order, then gave me his phone number to walk me thru when I got everything.
I care about anybody who is trying to quit smoking. We all KNOW what that is about. There is a certain amount of desperation involved, and you are a little scared that you won't succeed, and you are hoping it will be easy enough and you won't fail, because you are thinking it is "the way, the light"........ because nothing else has worked.
Now, people blow off their faces and mostly what I read is about
how dumb they were. I mean, that is the
very first thought offered. , instead of concern for the injured person.
I guess it's more important to be right than compassionate.
I've had a couple accidents in my life where I got hurt. In the final analysis, yeah, it was me not being AS aware or proactive as i could be......and sometimes it was just unforseen, you know, LIFE. . but at the time, when you're sitting in the ER,
that is really not what anybody who actually cares about you is thinking. (Or at least, I hope not) Nobody is thinking "well she deserved this".