Want some depressing stats? 63% of men in their 20s are single (that's twice more than women). This number has been exploding the last 10 years and especially the last 5. Many of them never want to get married again (or for the first time), they do not want to date, they don't want to have sex with them, they don't want to interact with women unless they have to. That's the sad part. Here's the scary part (for society). They are no longer depressed or disappointed about it and are living in total peace and will never change. In other words, these men have checked out permanently. I had a friend check out permanently. I didn't believe him. He's kept that promise to himself. He made that promise 45 years ago. The overall reason given for this trend: "There's nothing in it for me except hell". BTW, 50% of males between ages 18-24 have never asked a girl on a date. Oh, I could write a book about how this happened. I studied this intensely over the recent months because my neighbor girl is 20 and no one has ever asked her on a date (and she's cute). Let me leave you with one word you can research. "Hypergamy"
Cool! And I'm guessing you're one of those guys I mentioned above...at peace.
Left Chicago 26 years ago.