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Exactly what I was going to say.
I guarantee she knows windy. She knows you love her and are going to stick by her. And that will give her peace. I think you are giving her the best gift in life, knowing someone loves you enough to stand by you even when it is so incredibly hard to do so. I hope that gives you some peace as well.
My thoughts are still with you all.
and I'm sure I speak for all the regulars, Windy, when I say we are honored you trust us enough to share it with us.
windy you know you can count on me not to give you meaningless platitudes and this is no exception. This is just my opinion and doubtless most people won't agree with it...but maybe there's nothing to understand. What's happening to your grandma is not personal. No one "deserves" this but everyone gets it in one form or another. Some just get lucky. But the fact is the process of dying is slow. My grandma died of pancreatic cancer. She died at home because my mother is an RN and was able to make all the legal arrangements for a home death ahead of time. She stopped eating and drinking and it took many days before she actually died. What is also a fact is that we can't know what people experience while they are dying and we don't know that it's as bad as it seems to us. They may be doing important work that can only be done at that time. Talk to people that have experience the sudden and unexpected death of someone they love and you might find that this way is after all a gift to you both.
i wish there were a way to help ....................I have experienced the fast unexpected death with my mom she said she didn't feel well was going to lay down went to check on her half hour later said she was feeling better half hour later she was gone. No we don't know if its bad I can only comment on the fact she didn't want to be in a convalescent setting ever and I know some things aren't meant for us to understand
Windy, you're doing more for her than many. If you can, take comfort in that. We'll be here to help you through it.
Honey, you're going through a lot. We're honored you are comfortable enough to come to us with this. Don't you even worry about being a "downer."
You're doing what can be done- and that's enough, even if it doesn't make it suck any less.
Herrro raidies... love the new avi Windy!
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