If it was a guy I might have punched him.
But that's just me.

But that's just me.
Therein lies the source of your discomfort. Having an e-cig doesn't prove we are better than anyone else. It doesn't prove anything. It just "is". It's a habit/a hobby/a pleasure. Doesn't prove anything any more than a person who enjoys having coffee or tea all day. Or who loves chewing gum. Or who has a pet iguana.
It's just something you like to do. If you like to do it when you are in public, you should. It isn't any more harmful to those around you than chewing gum in their presence.
And it doesn't "prove" anything.
Yes, you are right- but for some of the members here.. They treat as if they're better than someone. Not trying to start a war. But you are right.
I asked the bartender in Ruby Tuesdays last night what managements stance was on e-cigs, her reply was "I've never been asked" so she asked and I got the go ahead as long as it didn't bother anyone around me. So I sat there drinking my beer, eating my dinner and putting out vapor like a choo choo train. Not one word was said about the fog.
"Beepen @$$ BEEPEN BEEP BEEP BEEP".
Interesting since I was turned down by a vaping manager in our Ruby Tuesdays. I guess it's not chain policy then.
I can't stress enough how important it is not to look like you're smoking when you vape in public.
I agree with that, but I don't think it's just whether the device looks like a cigarette. I think the cause is badly harmed by those who insist on using really heavy VG liquid to show off what massive clouds they can produce (whether the choice is for pleasure, exhibitionism, or persuasive effect). You can tell people all day and night that it's not smoke, but many will still think it's obnoxious.
I really soft-pedal it when I'm around other smokers. As huge a life improvement as you or I may consider the e-cigarette, to suggest this sort of life change to a dedicated smoker is a pretty big deal--maybe not quite on the level of trying to convince somebody to marry your sister--but major nonetheless. Don't be disappointed if they don't go along with it. Think of all the people who tried to persuade you to quit smoking, and you didn't.
I agree with that, but I don't think it's just whether the device looks like a cigarette. I think the cause is badly harmed by those who insist on using really heavy VG liquid to show off what massive clouds they can produce (whether the choice is for pleasure, exhibitionism, or persuasive effect). You can tell people all day and night that it's not smoke, but many will still think it's obnoxious.
That hasn't been my experience and I have vaped a lot in public. In restaurants I ask. So far, I've never been turned down. I think it's attitude as much as anything. If you seem furtive and uncomfortable or you intentionally flaunt it, you'll likely encounter problems. If you just do what makes you comfortable and mind your own business, you probably won't. People sense these things. I use a 70/30 mix and I've never varied that for vaping in public nor have I consciously tried to make large plumes or avoid them. Again, I just vape in whatever style I want to at the time. No different than I would sitting around watching TV. The only reaction I've gotten has been curiousity. Many times that's coupled with exclamations about how cool it is.
I really soft-pedal it when I'm around other smokers. As huge a life improvement as you or I may consider the e-cigarette, to suggest this sort of life change to a dedicated smoker is a pretty big deal--maybe not quite on the level of trying to convince somebody to marry your sister--but major nonetheless. Don't be disappointed if they don't go along with it. Think of all the people who tried to persuade you to quit smoking, and you didn't.