Some people, even our friends, can be very very stupid. They can't get beyond the wiring in their brains.
It's foolish to try to convince someone who won't listen to reason. I always prove to be just foolish enough to think the next time might be different.
Agreed.
I learned that at a young age.
I made a rule against establishing new attachments or friendships when I was 12. I have three friends who are grandfathered in from before that time. One is down for 21+ years and half way through it. Should be out 2019. I don't see the other two much, but they're only still friends because they're not idiots and wouldn't turn on me if you paid them $100M. And if they took your $100M to turn on me, they'd be by to split the cash with me the next day and we'd both be laughing at ya. LoL over here.
I broke that rule about forming attachments three times.. With women.. The three best and worst decisions I've ever made. Ha ha ha
When you don't allow many people into your world .. two great things happen
1. You're instantly desirable to the opposite sex. Regardless of anything else.
2. You bypass 90% of horrible problems most people end up dealing with.
The problem I have is LOVED ONES. FAMILY. People you're stuck caring about. I've managed to narrow that down to the bone in the past few years. But I still care greatly about my parents, grandmother and my sister and brother in law. Caring about my parents and grandmother is a horrible experience. Horrible. They're like five year olds. solve all of their problems and when I am not around they cause nightmares.
You should see. I didn't come back for a couple of years one time and they charged up the credit cards, got a mortgage and all kinds of things. This last time I as gone about a year, the whole time they're on the phone telling me how good things are going, they have plenty of income, eating good, etc.. and by the time I came back to see about them they had one foot on the sidewalk. Refrigerator empty. Etc. After literally 100 hours on the phone, and probably an inch thick stack of papers and hunting ALL DAY for papers in the scattered mess of PAPERS I had everything straightened out.
Appreciation? No ... Each and every time I see one of my lady friends and make her

or smile or solve the tiniest problem for her .. I see more appreciation than I have from these ...... in a lifetime.. This year I have FINALLY learned my lesson about living for people who don't live for ME.
The good news is that caring about my sister it is rewarding and a awesome experience for me. She would go to the ends of hell for me, does not act like a child, has made a good life for herself and she is an angel!!
Thanks for giving me an opportunity to rant
I don't mind ranting sometimes
I'm eccentric and old I guess