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I find the tone of most of these posts to be pretty hypocritical. Until you stumbled into vaping, I presume you were smokers. Did nobody you care about tell you they were bad for you? Or did you just blithely smoke for years thinking the print on the side of a pack was the equivalent of the little note that says not to use your toaster in the bathtub? When you persisted smoking, despite everyone knowing how very bad for you it was, did everyone who cares about you just wash their hands of you, or were they accepting of this foible?

The ecig does not have any real studies behind it and the average person has heard the FDA talk about it being full of radiator fluid. In addition, they come from China, who have given us lead-painted toys and cadmium kids' jewelry. It is pretty easy to understand why someone might put it into the same category as a Dollar Store junk, magnets in the shoes, or crystals.

And, frankly, I made a vow to myself that if I was ever able to quit smoking, I would not become the hectoring boorish lecturer about how easy it was to stop smoking. Because it isn't and we still haven't broken the addiction/habituation. And I also suspect that 90% of the people here would go right back to cigarettes if their e-cigs were taken away, so it's not my place to get holier than thou on anyone.



I don’t think anybody could disagree with what you say, you have a few good points
what we are trying to say here is that the people who discovered vaping all know that no matter what they put into e-liquid be it 10-20 chemicals it can’t be worse than the 4000+ in analogs,
it just doesn’t make sense to us that not only do they not want to try e-cigs but they defend the analogs that they know will kill them one way or another, were as with the vaping being that there are no studies out yet we still have a 50- 50 chance that it is better for us.

50/50 is extremely generous IMO
 
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Wow-lol-think that one does beat water vapor:) Though, I still giggle when I think of it. Oddly enough so does Ron now-he realizes he was silly.......we have not discussed ecigs in several days-I certainly don't want to lecture anyone. Lord knows quitting is NOT easy. I justy thought the WV drowning thing was hilarious...


I think I have a “better” one.

I have a friend who has been a pack per day smoker for years. He refuses to try e-cigs because he’s afraid he’ll have an allergic reaction to nicotine! He’s convinced that he’s allergic to nicotine, but that something in the KILLING IT WITH FIRE process chemically alters it allowing him to ingest it safely. Naturally, I asked him what led him to this curious conclusion. He told me that, according to his chain-smoking mother, as a toddler he had been taken to a doctor for a persistent cough and the doctor told her that he was probably allergic to nicotine… and sent him home with cold medicine.

Me = 0_o
 

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And, frankly, I made a vow to myself that if I was ever able to quit smoking, I would not become the hectoring boorish lecturer about how easy it was to stop smoking. Because it isn't and we still haven't broken the addiction/habituation. And I also suspect that 90% of the people here would go right back to cigarettes if their e-cigs were taken away, so it's not my place to get holier than thou on anyone.

Yep. Long before I ever picked up a pv I swore that if I ever managed to quit smoking I'd never become one the militant, evangelizing reformed smoker nazis that I've encountered over the years.
 

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Amen. If there is anything I detest, it is the do-gooders of the world trying to force their lifestyle and beliefs on me. I say to all of them, GO AWAY! That includes ex-smokers, AA converts, and religious fanatics. Good for you that you have cleaned up your life. Enjoy. Meanwhile leave me the hell alone. If it's so good for you, you may live as an example. Perhaps I'll get curious and want what you have. Perhaps I won't and will continue to live as I do now. Either way, it is none of your business.
 

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I find the tone of most of these posts to be pretty hypocritical. Until you stumbled into vaping, I presume you were smokers. Did nobody you care about tell you they were bad for you? Or did you just blithely smoke for years thinking the print on the side of a pack was the equivalent of the little note that says not to use your toaster in the bathtub? When you persisted smoking, despite everyone knowing how very bad for you it was, did everyone who cares about you just wash their hands of you, or were they accepting of this foible?

The ecig does not have any real studies behind it and the average person has heard the FDA talk about it being full of radiator fluid. In addition, they come from China, who have given us lead-painted toys and cadmium kids' jewelry. It is pretty easy to understand why someone might put it into the same category as a Dollar Store junk, magnets in the shoes, or crystals.

And, frankly, I made a vow to myself that if I was ever able to quit smoking, I would not become the hectoring boorish lecturer about how easy it was to stop smoking. Because it isn't and we still haven't broken the addiction/habituation. And I also suspect that 90% of the people here would go right back to cigarettes if their e-cigs were taken away, so it's not my place to get holier than thou on anyone.



Well, I definitely was no better than the smokers.. That is why I always say things like "I've been there" or "I was the same way for years".. One thing I am pleased about is that I never made stupid excuses like 90% of smokers. I admitted to myself that I couldn't get away from them. That made me feel weak and like I wasn't in control. That's because it was true, and still is to some degree as I've not faced the addiction. I've only found a healthy clean way to feed it.

Now I am not giving up the way I want to smell, a healthy look, feeling healthy, being able to breathe, possible cancers, heart disease .. etc etc etc
I feel ALOT better about feeding my addiction now that I probably won't pay such horrible ultimate prices for it
And now that I don't pay the price every day of feeling, looking and smelling and acting sick.

I understand where you're coming from and I agree that people who are lecturers probably just KEEP PEOPLE SMOKING but when someone close tries to talk to them logically and they come up with "the moon is orange" logic and seem like they're PROUD of their ignorance... It makes me real mad. I always appreciated people who cared if I smoked. I agreed with them, but I was stuck!!

I do not ever imagine myself running around preaching to smokers. Those clowns make people smoke more. Smokers are rebellious and scared to death when someone tries to challenge their smoking "friend" the cigarette. Pushing them just only makes it worse for them. Why don't the preachers and whiners realize this?

I can walk away from any bottle or any female or any amount of money but cigarettes were my achilles heel!!!
 

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I spent an hour yesterday trying to convince my friend to switch to vaping but he wouldn’t budge his opinion is that it can’t be safer then analogs or the government would let you do as you wish in regards to advertising.(but he likes the taste of vape)

these are the same folks that shouldnt be allowed to vote!
 

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Very anti-smoker thread. Posts like these are why they hate us - they see us as no better than other rabid ex-smokers and antis, having an holier-than-thou attitude. :(

Some of you talk about "them" like you are somehow different, when the only difference is that you switched to a brand you hope is less harmful. Remember that a lot of tobacco smokers don't believe the truth is even being told about smoking and that the facts are all overblown and the jury is still out. I'm not saying I agree, but after seeing the antis claim that e-cigs have anti-freeze, are carcinogenic, that second-hand exposure to nicotine/smoke can cause a heart attack in a non-smoker in a matter of minutes and the absurd notion of "third-hand" smoke, how can we not wonder how far they'd go to vilify the odds of getting a serious disease from smoking? So, some smokers see vapers as alarmists who are still brainwashed by the anti-rhetoric.

Personally, I am still a smoker in many ways - just one who hopes that my new choice of inhalant won't hasten my early demise and feels healthier now. Smokers are our brothers-in-arms and in dehumanizing them, we fall victim to the same behavior that threatens our own passtime. We need them on our side, because we fight for a lot of the same things.

I recently claimed to some smoking activists that vapers don't put down smokers, just smoke. But this thread shows me what they meant by our attitude. I could take this thread and plop it into an ex-smoker/anti tobacco forum and it would fit right in. Reading this made me cringe. :(

The antis see vapers as just as pathetic, addicted, invasive, fringe and dangerous as tobacco smokers, so vaping doesn't give us any free pass. To them, we are all just nicotine addicts - no matter the delivery system (unless it's FDA-approved and intended to get us off nicotine.) So just think about what you are saying and how you say it, please??
 

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I'm totally with those of you who are saying we have no right being evangelical and anti-smoker.

Really, if they don't want to quit/switch... fine. Your life. I will kindly shut up about the awesome sauce that is the vapor, and you carry on smoking.

But at the same time... some of the blatantly, willfully, mind-bogglingly ignorant things that some of these people believe about vaping is the REASON they don't switch. Not because they'd rather smoke, but because they've swallowed the drivel that the FDA and other intentionally dishonest/honestly ignorant people have told them without questioning it. And that is infuriating. That is stopping people who want to switch from doing so.

I have a friend who smokes heavily. He understands the concept of e-cigarettes and the vaporizing process perfectly well. He just likes smoking and doesn't want to stop. Fine. Suit yourself. The last thing I ever want to become is a sanctimonious ex-smoker. Those people drive me crazy, even now.

I have another friend, also a heavy smoker, who desperately wants to quit smoking, all attempts have failed, but he won't even try e-cigs because "If I'm going to die in the next 20 years I'd rather know what's killing me."

*sigh*

If he would do some research, he could quite easily fill all the holes in his understanding of basic chemistry, which would lead him to the inevitable conclusion that there is simply no way e-cigs could be as bad as smoking. Perfectly safe? Probably not. But as bad as cigarettes? Definitely not.

And it's simply stubbornly-held ignorance. That's what makes it so frustrating.
 

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But at the same time... some of the blatantly, willfully, mind-bogglingly ignorant things that some of these people believe about vaping is the REASON they don't switch. Not because they'd rather smoke, but because they've swallowed the drivel that the FDA and other intentionally dishonest/honestly ignorant people have told them without questioning it. And that is infuriating. That is stopping people who want to switch from doing so.

And it's simply stubbornly-held ignorance. That's what makes it so frustrating.

that is exactly what i was trying to say... just didnt know how to say it.
 

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I don't look down on smokers.. just ridiculous excuses they make. You have to admit that the reasons people are talking about hearing are things that even complete mental cases would laugh at!! I understand why smokers smoke and like I said I'll never be one of those whiny preachy closed minded ........ As I said, I know that they just make most people want to never quit.

The only difference between me and most smokers was I admitted to myself that I was addicted to it, hated it, and still could not get away from it. I never made wild far fetched excuses. I never coddled myself with "I do it for the taste" "I do it because I enjoy it" "I do it because it calms my nerves". I never said any of that feelgood nonsense. I faced the truth.

As I've also said - We're absolutely no better than cigarette smokers - we've not conquered our addiction, we've merely found a clean safe way to feed the addiction. We're not heroes. Just making a more intelligent informed choice.

I reserve the right to be mad and angry at any stubborn idiot. I HATE stubborn ignorant people. I not only can't stand them, I want to :censored: them for the good of mankind. Whether it's a ..... insisting that the sky looks red, an idiot insisting they want to stab themselves through saran wrap because they know it'll protect them, a cigarette smoker who insists that vaping is just as dangerous as cigarettes when that is clearly 100% impossible to anyone with two brain cells lit up, etc.

I think what you're worried about is a new subculture of anti-smokers amongst vapers. You believe that vapers will begin heckling smokers like some non smokers have heckled smokers for decades now. I don't know if you're right, but could easily see it happening. And I think it IS a concern. I'm all for addressing that early.

We're all part of the birth of e-smoking, and I agree that we need to stop that kind of thing before it starts (vapers preaching at smokers or looking down on smokers)... because it will just push smokers to continue using tobacco.
 

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I'm totally with those of you who are saying we have no right being evangelical and anti-smoker.

Really, if they don't want to quit/switch... fine. Your life. I will kindly shut up about the awesome sauce that is the vapor, and you carry on smoking.

But at the same time... some of the blatantly, willfully, mind-bogglingly ignorant things that some of these people believe about vaping is the REASON they don't switch. Not because they'd rather smoke, but because they've swallowed the drivel that the FDA and other intentionally dishonest/honestly ignorant people have told them without questioning it. And that is infuriating. That is stopping people who want to switch from doing so.

I have a friend who smokes heavily. He understands the concept of e-cigarettes and the vaporizing process perfectly well. He just likes smoking and doesn't want to stop. Fine. Suit yourself. The last thing I ever want to become is a sanctimonious ex-smoker. Those people drive me crazy, even now.

I have another friend, also a heavy smoker, who desperately wants to quit smoking, all attempts have failed, but he won't even try e-cigs because "If I'm going to die in the next 20 years I'd rather know what's killing me."

*sigh*

If he would do some research, he could quite easily fill all the holes in his understanding of basic chemistry, which would lead him to the inevitable conclusion that there is simply no way e-cigs could be as bad as smoking. Perfectly safe? Probably not. But as bad as cigarettes? Definitely not.

And it's simply stubbornly-held ignorance. That's what makes it so frustrating.

With all due respect, Ms. Nomad, as I truly do value your opinion on most things, maybe you didn't smoke enough years to understand the smoking mindset. Frankly, as more and more people lectured about the huge satanic-grade evil that is cigarettes, heels get dug in. And there is a certain degree of truth in sticking with the devil you know. Whether we acknowledge it or not, there has not been a lot of study into the real effects of using an ecig. Considering the number of lawyer commercials on TV soliciting your business because of the dangers of X, Y, and Z, which the FDA said was safe, it doesn't require a huge stretch of the imagination to see where they might wonder how bad something must be for the FDA to be down on it.

I don't look down on smokers.. just ridiculous excuses they make. You have to admit that the reasons people are talking about hearing are things that even complete mental cases would laugh at!! I understand why smokers smoke and like I said I'll never be one of those whiny preachy closed minded ........ As I said, I know that they just make most people want to never quit.

The only difference between me and most smokers was I admitted to myself that I was addicted to it, hated it, and still could not get away from it. I never made wild far fetched excuses. I never coddled myself with "I do it for the taste" "I do it because I enjoy it" "I do it because it calms my nerves". I never said any of that feelgood nonsense. I faced the truth.

As I've also said - We're absolutely no better than cigarette smokers - we've not conquered our addiction, we've merely found a clean safe way to feed the addiction. We're not heroes. Just making a more intelligent informed choice.

I reserve the right to be mad and angry at any stubborn idiot. I HATE stubborn ignorant people. I not only can't stand them, I want to :censored: them for the good of mankind. Whether it's a ..... insisting that the sky looks red, an idiot insisting they want to stab themselves through saran wrap because they know it'll protect them, a cigarette smoker who insists that vaping is just as dangerous as cigarettes when that is clearly 100% impossible to anyone with two brain cells lit up, etc.

I think what you're worried about is a new subculture of anti-smokers amongst vapers. You believe that vapers will begin heckling smokers like some non smokers have heckled smokers for decades now. I don't know if you're right, but could easily see it happening. And I think it IS a concern. I'm all for addressing that early.

We're all part of the birth of e-smoking, and I agree that we need to stop that kind of thing before it starts (vapers preaching at smokers or looking down on smokers)... because it will just push smokers to continue using tobacco.

Some of the things you state as ridiculous reasons for smoking are true. Because of the MAOI's and other chemicals in cigarettes effect on the body, they do calm people down. Obviously there must be something to the taste thing because there are very few ejuice makers out that don't have a tobacco line. There must be something enjoyable about cigarette smoking because by definition an ecig is designed to replicate that as much as possible-- if it were not enjoyable, we would not need that.

I smoked for 35 years. I heard every story in the book about why I should quit. I had every nonsmoker within a 50 mile radius full of helpful tips. Like lollipops...you get the hand-mouth motion, great taste, but none of the bad stuff. Sound familiar? The best thing to do is go about your business. If interested, they will ask and then try to be informative without being preachy, and I think it would be helpful if you could avoid phrases like "I used to be a disgusting smoker" or "I hated the way I stunk all the time when I smoked" or "mindfully ignorant smokers". Speaking as a person who heard those things long before ecigs came around, they do nothing to help promote an ecig and rather slam the door to hearing anything else said. Despite all the smug patting ourselves on the back, we're just one FDA decision away from rejoining them in the Febreeze aisle.
 
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One of the best things that I think when talking to a smoker about vaping, take a white tissue, take a drag and blow thru the tissue, then ask the smoker to do the same. The proof will show and may at least get them think about it. If they ask more questions, talk to them. If not, continue to vape with them and talk about the weather......
 

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I find the tone of most of these posts to be pretty hypocritical. Until you stumbled into vaping, I presume you were smokers.

Just what I was thinking. Everyone will rationalize bad decisions - smokers do so starting with their first cigarette and get better at it with each one. Some are just more clever with it than others ;)

The older I get, the more pointless it becomes to share my experience with others and expect them to take heed. No matter how ridiculous the rationalization is. So most of the time I don't bother. If I do, I don't get bent out of shape if I get the okie-dokie. I just chalk it up to them being as hard-headed as I am.
 
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Kristen, the points you make are the very ones that make me reluctant to participate on this board much anymore. I cringe when I read the nonsense spouted by vapers who sanctimoniously degrade smokers...some of them only days or weeks after they themselves were smokers. Those of you who become anti-smokers are doing yourselves a disservice. The battle is the same. Frankly, I would not fight for them if I believed that the greater vaping community is represented by those who post this trash.
 

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Sherid, I think a lot of new vapers don't even realize that they are still a bit brainwashed. I know I was, because even though I was pro-ecig, at first I was against my husband using snus (something was "missing" with ecigs.) Then I did the research and realized we know more about the relative safety of snus and long-term use than we do about e-cigs and that the antis were lying about that, too! I want to scream everytime I checkout at the store and see the Coppenhagen sign with the huge, black "This product causes mouth cancer" required sign below it. I just know it makes people continue to smoke, rather than try a smokeless alternative that is up to 99% less risk. The irony that people are more worried about having their face disfigured than all of the other things smoking is supposed to cause.

People need to realize that a lot of people supporting smoking don't believe the claims about smoking are any more valid than the claims about vaping. It's amazing the reports and studies they have to support their side and counter the claims from public health groups. I can't help but wonder if the claims from smoking aren't blown out of proportion. The only thing they can't convince me of is that it wasn't bad for me - regardless of my distrust of the public health groups. I know how my body felt when I smoked and I know how it feels now. But even ecigs containing nicotine have some risk involved, but I've decided the risk is minimal. Maybe smokers who have done their research feel the same way about their cigarettes.

I understand the sentiment of vapers who are amazed at the inaccurate and false assumptions made by some smokers about e-cigarettes - drowning in vapor is a real stretch and I cringe when smokers (who want to quit) have been convinced that e-cigarettes contain anti-freeze or the same number of carcinogens that tobacco cigarettes do. But when a smoker who has done their research about smoking says that they don't believe that smoking is as bad for them as we are told, I can't help but empathise. Who says that the risk I am taking is "better" than the risk they are taking? It's their personal choice and comfort level. If a smoker refuses to switch based on myth, lies and misconception about e-cigarettes, all I can do is give them the facts to make an informed decision. But making fun of smokers as a group, calling some of them "ignorant," talking about them as though we are better is just plain wrong and will come back to haunt us.
 
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Sherid, I think a lot of new vapers don't even realize that they are still a bit brainwashed. I know I was, because even though I was pro-ecig, at first I was against my husband using snus (something was "missing" with ecigs.) Then I did the research and realized we know more about the relative safety of snus and long-term use than we do about e-cigs and that the antis were lying about that, too! I want to scream everytime I checkout at the store and see the Coppenhagen sign with the huge, black "This product causes mouth cancer" required sign below it. I just know it makes people continue to smoke, rather than try a smokeless alternative that is up to 99% less risk. The irony that people are more worried about having their face disfigured than all of the other things smoking is supposed to cause.

People need to realize that a lot of people supporting smoking don't believe the claims about smoking are any more valid than the claims about vaping. It's amazing the reports and studies they have to support their side and counter the claims from public health groups. I can't help but wonder if the claims from smoking aren't blown out of proportion. The only thing they can't convince me of is that it wasn't bad for me - regardless of my distrust of the public health groups. I know how my body felt when I smoked and I know how it feels now. But even ecigs containing nicotine have some risk involved, but I've decided the risk is minimal. Maybe smokers who have done their research feel the same way about their cigarettes.

I understand the sentiment of vapers who are amazed at the inaccurate and false assumptions made by some smokers about e-cigarettes - drowning in vapor is a real stretch and I cringe when smokers (who want to quit) have been convinced that e-cigarettes contain anti-freeze or the same number of carcinogens that tobacco cigarettes do. But when a smoker who has done their research about smoking says that they don't believe that smoking is as bad for them as we are told, I can't help but empathise. Who says that the risk I am taking is "better" than the risk they are taking? It's their personal choice and comfort level. If a smoker refuses to switch based on myth, lies and misconception about e-cigarettes, all I can do is give them the facts to make an informed decision. But making fun of smokers as a group, calling some of them "ignorant," talking about them as though we are better is just plain wrong and will come back to haunt us.

Here's something that amazed me: a tool that predicts lung cancer for smokers, Sloan-Kettering - Prediction Tools: Lung Cancer Risk Assessment I had always believed that the risk was many times higher.
 

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A lot of smokers go by the idea that just because something COULD cause an adverse effect, it doesn't mean it WILL. And just as with getting mouth cancer from tobacco (1-2% chance smokeless, 2-4% chance smoking) just because something is has a "chance," it doesn't mean it's a GREAT chance. The antis get people with statements like "twice the chance as with non-smokers" but don't tell you that the chance in non-smokers is 1/2 - 1%. It seems less ominous to say that by using chew, there is a 98-99% chance you WON'T get mouth cancer from it.
 

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SimpleSins - None taken. It's true, I was lucky enough not to experience a lot of the hell that multi-decade smokers do, physically, psychologically, or socially. The 21st century is a good time to be in for a young, highly addicted smoker.

I am never the type to push the issue of quitting. Not once, not ever, no way. My friend who expressed an ignorance of chemistry as his reason for disregarding e-cigs? I told him if he would like I'd be happy to do some homework for him. He said no. I left it at that, and have ever since. That was a couple months ago.

But inwardly, it fuels my fire to provide whatever information we do have accurately, and to push for us to learn and study more.

I am also not silly enough to believe every anti-smoker "study" that comes out. I know how to tell a well-conducted study and BS pseudo-science apart. Smoking is indeed bad for you - but as Kristin so eloquently pointed out, some of the so-called "dangers" of smoking are either overblown or complete crap. And that was something I was vocal about even before I wound up becoming a smoker myself, because even then it struck me as discrimination and demonization..
 

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Some of the things you state as ridiculous reasons for smoking are true. Because of the MAOI's and other chemicals in cigarettes effect on the body, they do calm people down. Obviously there must be something to the taste thing because there are very few ejuice makers out that don't have a tobacco line. There must be something enjoyable about cigarette smoking because by definition an ecig is designed to replicate that as much as possible-- if it were not enjoyable, we would not need that.

I smoked for 35 years. I heard every story in the book about why I should quit. I had every nonsmoker within a 50 mile radius full of helpful tips. Like lollipops...you get the hand-mouth motion, great taste, but none of the bad stuff. Sound familiar? The best thing to do is go about your business. If interested, they will ask and then try to be informative without being preachy, and I think it would be helpful if you could avoid phrases like "I used to be a disgusting smoker" or "I hated the way I stunk all the time when I smoked" or "mindfully ignorant smokers". Speaking as a person who heard those things long before ecigs came around, they do nothing to help promote an ecig and rather slam the door to hearing anything else said. Despite all the smug patting ourselves on the back, we're just one FDA decision away from rejoining them in the Febreeze aisle.

I see several responses to this thread talking about what has been said as if it was an all out assault on cigarette smokers. One person even referred to some of what was posted as "trash". Sensitive, are we.. ?? Someone please point out to me what was such a huge "attack" on smokers. I think that anyone who has been so offended needs to settle back and look at what was said.

If anyone is so offended by the most far fetched reasons for smoking on earth being made light of .. maybe you have a problem .. . I know human nature is, I didn't like that so the other party is wrong .. Right?

I never put it to people as if they're degenerate idiots for smoking.. I tell them about the benefits I'm enjoying. My health, the way I feel, the money I am saving, the fact that I'm not giving money to a government I hate, etc. I figure there's a better chance of swaying someone without pushing them.

The only thing I've ever heard that could be a possible benefit of smoking is that it calms some peoples nerves. I've acknowledged that possibility many times. I don't believe that effect is common in smokers and I know that in most of them/us smoking does the exact opposite because of being in perpetual withdrawl from nicotine UNLESS we would chain smoke.

If you're one who benefits from a certain calming effect from MAOIs or whatever else.. you're still subject to the perpetual nic wd as a smoker. So I just don't see the point either way. Some people obviously do. I'll never agree that it's worth what they're doing to their body but I'll also never look down on them or heckle them about it.

The only thing I don't agree with Ms. Kristin about is that she tends to softplay the harm that cigarette smoke does to a smokers body. I've seen it first hand, it is well documented and anyone should know that painting the inside of your lungs with a carcinogen rich tar is about the worst thing you could do to yourself.

I agree with her on just about everything else. The possible benefits to a small percentage of smokers. The overblown media blitzes against everything. The whiny preachy non smokers. The attitude of superiority some non smokers and/or vapers tend to cop at smokers. Etc.

I also understand WHY so many smokers come up with such nonsense about vaping. The government brainwashes, the difficulty of something challenging their closely embraced cigarette which is a deeply rooted mental crutch and "friend", how easy it is to just keep smoking and ignore the facts.. People, especially here in the states, follow the path of least resistance. And have, for some time now.

The people close to me who smoke have all quit.. Thanks to me. Not because I heckled them or went on and on about it, but because I showed them that I believed in it. I showed them the benefits I get out of using a clean alternative. I showed them that I had done the research. I addressed any concerns they had. Now they're more hardcore about vaping than I could ever be!!


All in all it comes down to a few important things

1. I don't like our soul stealing, people killing, citizen raping government
People in my family died and not so we can live as we are. They did it so that we, the people, could make our own decisions and live a safe healthy happy life. That we would reap the reward of any production we took part in. Not have our health and wealth raped away at every turn.

2. I don't like ignorant people who will debate something without logic
A-lot of people in this state will try to argue the piss out of something without backing anything they say with one ounce of logic. And then when you corner them about it, they have no point to make, they'll look at you like you're stupid and walk away.

3. I'll give it to someone right between the eyes. Even myself.
Anyone who wants to be close to me not only appreciates that but will return the favor. Things I've heard that have hurt me or shocked me or knocked me off center the most have come from people I am very close to. And it has been appreciated at every turn.

In short this means that I don't have time to preach at anyone. I don't care what anyone does if they don't have the brains to listen to me. I know how to be wrong if someone corrects me with their own logic. I don't expect anyone to give me advice or help if I am not open to listening to what they have to say.
 
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